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90DF The Other Way is back, to prove that marriage can be miserable anywhere, so long as the only thing you pack in your carryon bag are lies. Sumit slow-walks the mean streets of India like the protagonist in a power ballad, mumbling lyrics about loss and the strength of men, while a dude with a single snare drum follows at a safe distance and ... 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Red Wine Recap: Deavan, Jihoon, and the Translator from Hell Tue Jul 28, 2020 at 4:57pm ET Tue Jul 28, 2020 at 4:57 pm EDT By Liz Long 1 Comment I don’t want to say okay: Recap of 90DF The Other Way S02E16 EVUHDENS 📒 Welcome to another chapter of 90 Day Fiance: The Wrong Way, where double standards are alive and well, and people only care about religion post engagement. This week on 90DF The Other Way, Deavan and Jihoon are finally introduced, Tiffany lands in South Africa, and Corey gets stood up at the airport. ... 90 Day Fiance The Other Way Recap: No Looking Back. Introducing Deavan & Jihoon! ... In fact, they met Deavan once and complained that “she didn’t say a word” to them. Ermmm, okay. 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Red Wine Recap: The (almost) end of a never-ending saga. Let’s drink! Tue Sep 01, 2020 at 2:23pm ET Tue Sep 01, 2020 at 2:23 pm EDT [Warning: The below contains MAJOR spoilers for Season 2, Episode 11 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. Couples plan for the future, with Kenneth popping the question to Armando and Deavan and ... Confession: I had to watch last night’s episode of 90 Day Fiance The Other Way late because it didn’t record and I got home mid-broadcast. All that said, I will try to summarize the EPIC SH*TSHOW of what we witnessed as best I can without the aid of my trusty pals: Rewind and Pause. As a result of this personal tragedy (thoughts and prayers go out to me retroactively at this time), I was ... This week’s 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way proved that love knows no boundaries, and that Corey can survive a public bus. We also learned valuable information about Aladin’s sexual prowess and that Paul Staehle might be a terrorist! Or not! But who cares! He’s on the run! But before we catch up with Paul and his cooling vest, let’s check in with everyone else.

2020.10.19 20:58 fractalfay Camera going inside vagina

Welcome to another chapter of 90 Day Fiance: The Wrong Way, where double standards are alive and well, and people only care about religion post engagement.
Kenny and Armando are with adorable daughter Hannah and Kenny’s half-blind dog, so we already have a Hallmark movie unfurling before our tearful eyes. They’re hoping Hannah will have a better response to their pending marriage than the rest of Armando’s family, which included hysterically crying, stunned silence, and a mom who looks at her hands and pretends to be more accepting than her husband. They sit Hannah down between them and the pressure is on. I can’t tell if what she expresses is sincere, or if she loves her dad so much she’s watching his face and responding in ways that produce a smile. Armando tells her they’re engaged, and she doesn’t know what that means, but is pleased to learn they’ll all be together forever. Kenny is moved by how she embraces their marriage, and hugs her. Then all the 90s sitcom dads form a protective ring around them, chanting their series’ respective catch phrases to banish the HBO from this plot line.
“If I have another child, she will be born a unicorn,” Armando speaks truth.
“My children were just given to me, because I already am a unicorn,” Kenny also has thoughts.
Later, Armando sits down with his mom to discuss what went down, and she expresses frustration that she wasn’t told of their engagement first. Armando pulls her card, and says that he suspects she would have tried to talk him out of sharing the news, and he wants everyone to know. His mother avoids his eyes, and this is definitely true. Armando asks if she’ll come to their wedding, and she doesn’t know what they need a wedding for, just go down to the registry! She inches up to “small” wedding, while all of us at home cross over into stop it already.
“Wow, I really wish my familial struggle was accepting my son’s sexuality,” says every parent who lost a child. “I mean, she gets to decide to lose her son, while the rest of us just wake up to be devastated one day, with this giant gaping hole that was once filled with hope and love. If only I had the chance to let my religious discomfort weigh more than my child’s happiness.”
Armando is unwavering with his mother, and again asks if she’ll come, regardless of whether the wedding is big or small. “I will, but I don’t know if your father will,” she says, using her husband as a human shield, again.
It’s finally time to leave, and the family is losing their shit about Hannah moving away. For a family so flattened by loss, they don’t seem inspired to behave in a way that encourages them to stay. Armando’s sister says that she knows Kenny is a kind person, and he’ll raise Hannah well. Kenny feels a tweak of guilt for being the reason they’re splitting apart, and approaches Armando’s mother for a hug, and she surrenders to the Kenny warmth. Armando’s dad finally shows his face, and hugs his son, and shakes Kenny’s hand. As they drive away from the fam and towards their new home, Hannah cries, and Armando comforts her.
Don’t get too comfortable fam, because Ari is fixing to have the most annoying labor in the history of Ethiopia. She calls her mom, and expresses disappointment that nature didn’t cooperate with her schedule. Janice is sad that she won’t be there to hover over every contraction, which inspires tears from Ari, because she was hoping for the same thing. Janice quickly switches to nurse mode and says, “Don’t be scared, you’ll be fine.” Biniyam is also there, to point out that birth is “sweeter” when it arrives courtesy of a massive writhing melon butchering your vagina and slicing your body in half. That’s nice, Biniyam. Please sit down over there. Way, way over there.
Ari is about to outdo herself in terms of sobbing theatrics, either to get out of the epidural or because she’s That Chick. As she cries out that her back hurts, and that “I don’t want to say okay,” the entire staff wonders what sort of horror would unfurl if she made it to a natural birth.
“I would call off sick that day,” The nurse reports. “I would not want to be asked to crawl inside her vagina to drag out the baby. There is not enough money in the world. That is my final price.”
Finally knocked out, she annoys the nurses 75% less, and they pull the little critter out, covered in mucus. Let us all take a moment to appreciate the true post-labor baby form, in all its mashed face, alien mutant glory. This kid doesn’t cry immediately, because he knows he’s the least childish person in this segment. After some prodding from the nurses he manages a little cry, and Biniyam is relieved, because now he can finally start doing the parental bare minimum.
Ari feels better now that she’s high, and insists that the theater we observed was because she just “needed a minute” and she still doesn’t get that her birth was urgent, and the entire hospital doesn’t revolve around her. They call Ari’s mom, who expresses congrats, as she ponders shelling out the ducets for an absurd airfare to get to Ari sooner. The kid looks content snoozing against the boob, while everyone at home puzzles out the red marks around his eyes.
Then Biniyam’s family arrives making sounds of celebration, and decide post surgery is a good time to browbeat someone about baptism. Ari tells Biniyam’s fam that they’re calling him Simba for now, because they can’t settle on a name, so they might as well go with something slightly racist and humiliating. Ari likes Avielle, because it can be shortened to Avi, which sounds suspiciously like her own name, because of course it does. Biniyam likes Gabriel, which Ari objects to because she can’t embrace the nickname Gabe. This kid is going to name himself Pookit between fist chews if these two don’t get their shit together.
Since both Ari and Biniyam are completely dependent on Ari’s mother to adult for them, they have nothing for the baby. Biniyam is tasked with going to the market with his sister Wish, to get a wash tub and some sort of soft carrying device, I guess. Biniyam looks at everything like it’s new to him, which only underscores the suspicion that he had a similar setup with child #1. He’s sad to be reminded of his first son, and talks about his first marriage like it was something done to him.
“Yes, this is the correct way,” Sumit is there for him.
Biniyam picks out a few things, and is worried Ari won’t like what he chooses. Uh, no Biniyam, Ari is not going to like what you choose. Complaining is a lifestyle choice for her. You could carry a golden toilet for six miles on your back, and when you presented it she would say it’s too heavy, and call her mom to ask her to bring a better one. Never mind that any child born between 1975 and 1990 took a bath in a bucket and rode shotgun in a car on their parent’s lap, because that was the weed-out decade, and we’re totally FINE.
Speaking of rough riders, Drascilla is a feral child jack-in-the-box, and you never know when she’ll pop. She’s got a puppy now named BamBam, and the pup seems pleased to meet a human who bests his energy level. The camera people pass on following Drascilla from room to room, collecting a bounty of fascinating material, to focus on Jihoon and Deavan hanging shit up in their closet. Riveting. Deavan reports that Jihoon has more clothes than her, and Jihoon says it’s because he’s a fashionista, which should explain his finances. Deavan’s crunching the numbers in her head, but she lets it go, because she’s happy that he’s working and that he stays up at night with Teayang.
“Thank you for being a man,” Deavan Utahs.
Deavan reports that she wants her kids to grow up with a father, and the best way to do that is to rotate the man in her life every six months so they don’t spoil. Jihoon has his own concern, which is the absence of a bidet. “My anal is getting dirty. It’s so bad. Paper towel is not good. Scratch your anal. You so dirty,” Jihoon, international spokesperson for bidets, reports to everyone at home.
With the house in place Deavan has new priorities, and since this is 90DF the only possible option is getting married a second time. Deavan says that the most important part is having Drascilla as a flower girl, so she can throw grenades up and down the aisle while screaming she’s queen of the vampires, which I support. At some point Deavan puts a rug in the tub, while announcing that in the US of A that shit would have been tossed and replaced with a new one. Where in America is this America Deavan keeps referencing?
Seriously, can we cut the shit already? No one wants to see all these fools get married 20 times, just before the inevitable divorce. I’d rather watch them post heavily edited selfies on instagram than watch another stumble down the aisle. The one exception would be if the entire episode revolves around lubing up Drascilla to better slide her writhing body into a flower girl dress, while she screams that it burns. Could I watch this kid all day? Yes I could.
Tim and Melyza wake up next to each other, having finally got their fuck on. You can tell Melyza enjoyed herself by the way she runs her tongue over her teeth in the off chance she smiles. The producer notes that Tim is a big dude, and she insists that it’s not that Tim is big, it’s that she’s small. Um, okay. Guess you couldn’t give Tim that one.
They go to a park, where Tim marvels at the grass and trees and starts singing, “Put on a happy face.” Because 90DF is a musical now. Melyza knows she needs to come clean, but wants to know if there’s anything she can hold over his head first. They discuss the different vibe that comes from moving there, rather than having an extended vacation, and how they can actually have open, candid conversations. Tim confesses that there is some flirting that happened when they were apart, because apparently the office where he works is like a club with less enticing clothing. Melyza gets upset about this, despite the fact that she had a full on relationship going on, but this is a great thing to latch onto for flipping the script. He asks if she saw anyone, and she retorts, “I was single. Why do you care?”
His eyebrow accomplishes an eye hood I haven’t even seen from Colt. “It feels like she’s playing games with me,” Tim reports, which is rated MOSTLY TRUE by our fact checkers.
One of two things is true: 1.) Melyza’s relationship was serious, or 2.) She’s making this shit up.
Melyza insists her situation is different, and that she didn’t send him mixed signals…before he moved there. “WE WERE ON A BREAK,” Melyza Rosses.
Tim tries to have an unscheduled feeling, and Melyza says she’s being punished for honesty. Yes Melyza, that is the price honesty demands.
Later on she figures she should have the same conversation that she had with her mother three episodes ago, and said mother expresses the same opinion that they’re done that she said before. Riveting television, TLC. Melyza also admits she hasn’t been able to say “I love you” to Tim since all this went down, and hasn’t really processed being cheated on by someone she once trusted completely.
For his part, Tim and Pepe the Emotional Support Cat call up his therapist to wade through his own feelings of betrayal. He tells the therapist he feels blindsided, since the new relationship she ditched just one short month ago didn’t come up in conversation before he purchased airfare. The therapist tells him that now trust needs to be rebuilt from both sides. Tim is still grossed out at the idea of another dude cramming his tongue down his lady’s throat, or being big just because she’s small, and the therapist assures him that it’s alright to puke into his hands. She says that Melyza’s got to regain his trust now, which will take commitment and hard work. Tim thinks this road longer than he anticipated, and worries that they won’t make it.
As we watch this scene, 90DF is scouring the earth for The Other Man, praying he can make a Zoom appearance during the Tell-All. I see you, 90DF. I know you have drones now.
In Chicago, Brittany is living in a world without consequences where employment is optional, and still hasn’t worked out the puzzle of getting a divorce. She’s meeting up with her mom and sister, Virginia, to meet her new nephew and see her niece again.
“I want to have kids one day and have a nanny, or a dog or two,” Brittany reports, in case her line about digging for Arabic oil money didn’t already out her agenda. Virginia manages to not laugh. Britt just isn’t sure she’s ready for a lifetime of lying about the possibility of converting to Islam.
“Brittany is light years away from a Muslim woman,” Virginia says. She thinks that Yazan’s gonna want Brittany to change. Probably because he said exactly that. Virginia can’t believe she’s playing this game, and thinks Britt is not ready to pretend to move to Jordan. She thinks if Britt did convert, Yazan would become the overbearing asshole she saw at the airport 24/7.
Theory: Britt didn’t even file for divorce before she left, and the real reason she is in Chicago is that she can’t get out of marrying Yazan, and finally needs to file.
Yazan’s life continues to go on after Brittany boards a flight, and he’s left dealing with the consequences of her hasty departure. He meets up with his friend Muhammad to detail what’s been going down. It turns out relatives sent his father Brittany’s collection of publicly displayed tits and ass photos, which makes him even more suspicious of her true motivations, and so he tells Yazan he thinks Brittany is playing games. He insists they’re old pictures, like from weeks ago, and that she’s honest, and you can mutate facts if the powers of denial are strong enough.
Since his dad is unwavering in calling bullshit, he fires Yazan and boots him from the house, forcing Yazan to spend two nights urban camping. According to Yazan, instead of being honest for the first time in her life, Brittany told him she can’t come to Jordan until he ponies up for her plane ticket…and dude is unemployed. Yazan confesses that it seems like she’s living in another world, and there’s no care for him at all. Because there isn’t. Muhammad thinks Yazan should follow this instinct. “For the first time in my life, I feel like I made the wrong choice,” Yazan says. “The only airfare I can afford is to the Land of Oops. I’m hoping to meet Tim, Jihoon, and Ari there for tea.”
Next week: Armando doesn’t appreciate Kenny clocking in on his parenting, Yazan tries to get Brittany to acknowledge other people exist, Deavan is boring, Sumit finds out his wife wants $500 a month in maintenance, and Ari saves her son from genital mutilation.
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2020.10.19 20:57 fractalfay Camera going inside vagina

Welcome to another chapter of 90 Day Fiance: The Wrong Way, where double standards are alive and well, and people only care about religion post engagement.
Kenny and Armando are with adorable daughter Hannah and Kenny’s half-blind dog, so we already have a Hallmark movie unfurling before our tearful eyes. They’re hoping Hannah will have a better response to their pending marriage than the rest of Armando’s family, which included hysterically crying, stunned silence, and a mom who looks at her hands and pretends to be more accepting than her husband. They sit Hannah down between them and the pressure is on. I can’t tell if what she expresses is sincere, or if she loves her dad so much she’s watching his face and responding in ways that produce a smile. Armando tells her they’re engaged, and she doesn’t know what that means, but is pleased to learn they’ll all be together forever. Kenny is moved by how she embraces their marriage, and hugs her. Then all the 90s sitcom dads form a protective ring around them, chanting their series’ respective catch phrases to banish the HBO from this plot line.
“If I have another child, she will be born a unicorn,” Armando speaks truth.
“My children were just given to me, because I already am a unicorn,” Kenny also has thoughts.
Later, Armando sits down with his mom to discuss what went down, and she expresses frustration that she wasn’t told of their engagement first. Armando pulls her card, and says that he suspects she would have tried to talk him out of sharing the news, and he wants everyone to know. His mother avoids his eyes, and this is definitely true. Armando asks if she’ll come to their wedding, and she doesn’t know what they need a wedding for, just go down to the registry! She inches up to “small” wedding, while all of us at home cross over into stop it already.
“Wow, I really wish my familial struggle was accepting my son’s sexuality,” says every parent who lost a child. “I mean, she gets to decide to lose her son, while the rest of us just wake up to be devastated one day, with this giant gaping hole that was once filled with hope and love. If only I had the chance to let my religious discomfort weigh more than my child’s happiness.”
Armando is unwavering with his mother, and again asks if she’ll come, regardless of whether the wedding is big or small. “I will, but I don’t know if your father will,” she says, using her husband as a human shield, again.
It’s finally time to leave, and the family is losing their shit about Hannah moving away. For a family so flattened by loss, they don’t seem inspired to behave in a way that encourages them to stay. Armando’s sister says that she knows Kenny is a kind person, and he’ll raise Hannah well. Kenny feels a tweak of guilt for being the reason they’re splitting apart, and approaches Armando’s mother for a hug, and she surrenders to the Kenny warmth. Armando’s dad finally shows his face, and hugs his son, and shakes Kenny’s hand. As they drive away from the fam and towards their new home, Hannah cries, and Armando comforts her.
Don’t get too comfortable fam, because Ari is fixing to have the most annoying labor in the history of Ethiopia. She calls her mom, and expresses disappointment that nature didn’t cooperate with her schedule. Janice is sad that she won’t be there to hover over every contraction, which inspires tears from Ari, because she was hoping for the same thing. Janice quickly switches to nurse mode and says, “Don’t be scared, you’ll be fine.” Biniyam is also there, to point out that birth is “sweeter” when it arrives courtesy of a massive writhing melon butchering your vagina and slicing your body in half. That’s nice, Biniyam. Please sit down over there. Way, way over there.
Ari is about to outdo herself in terms of sobbing theatrics, either to get out of the epidural or because she’s That Chick. As she cries out that her back hurts, and that “I don’t want to say okay,” the entire staff wonders what sort of horror would unfurl if she made it to a natural birth.
“I would call off sick that day,” The nurse reports. “I would not want to be asked to crawl inside her vagina to drag out the baby. There is not enough money in the world. That is my final price.”
Finally knocked out, she annoys the nurses 75% less, and they pull the little critter out, covered in mucus. Let us all take a moment to appreciate the true post-labor baby form, in all its mashed face, alien mutant glory. This kid doesn’t cry immediately, because he knows he’s the least childish person in this segment. After some prodding from the nurses he manages a little cry, and Biniyam is relieved, because now he can finally start doing the parental bare minimum.
Ari feels better now that she’s high, and insists that the theater we observed was because she just “needed a minute” and she still doesn’t get that her birth was urgent, and the entire hospital doesn’t revolve around her. They call Ari’s mom, who expresses congrats, as she ponders shelling out the ducets for an absurd airfare to get to Ari sooner. The kid looks content snoozing against the boob, while everyone at home puzzles out the red marks around his eyes.
Then Biniyam’s family arrives making sounds of celebration, and decide post surgery is a good time to browbeat someone about baptism. Ari tells Biniyam’s fam that they’re calling him Simba for now, because they can’t settle on a name, so they might as well go with something slightly racist and humiliating. Ari likes Avielle, because it can be shortened to Avi, which sounds suspiciously like her own name, because of course it does. Biniyam likes Gabriel, which Ari objects to because she can’t embrace the nickname Gabe. This kid is going to name himself Pookit between fist chews if these two don’t get their shit together.
Since both Ari and Biniyam are completely dependent on Ari’s mother to adult for them, they have nothing for the baby. Biniyam is tasked with going to the market with his sister Wish, to get a wash tub and some sort of soft carrying device, I guess. Biniyam looks at everything like it’s new to him, which only underscores the suspicion that he had a similar setup with child #1. He’s sad to be reminded of his first son, and talks about his first marriage like it was something done to him.
“Yes, this is the correct way,” Sumit is there for him.
Biniyam picks out a few things, and is worried Ari won’t like what he chooses. Uh, no Biniyam, Ari is not going to like what you choose. Complaining is a lifestyle choice for her. You could carry a golden toilet for six miles on your back, and when you presented it she would say it’s too heavy, and call her mom to ask her to bring a better one. Never mind that any child born between 1975 and 1990 took a bath in a bucket and rode shotgun in a car on their parent’s lap, because that was the weed-out decade, and we’re totally FINE.
Speaking of rough riders, Drascilla is a feral child jack-in-the-box, and you never know when she’ll pop. She’s got a puppy now named BamBam, and the pup seems pleased to meet a human who bests his energy level. The camera people pass on following Drascilla from room to room, collecting a bounty of fascinating material, to focus on Jihoon and Deavan hanging shit up in their closet. Riveting. Deavan reports that Jihoon has more clothes than her, and Jihoon says it’s because he’s a fashionista, which should explain his finances. Deavan’s crunching the numbers in her head, but she lets it go, because she’s happy that he’s working and that he stays up at night with Teayang.
“Thank you for being a man,” Deavan Utahs.
Deavan reports that she wants her kids to grow up with a father, and the best way to do that is to rotate the man in her life every six months so they don’t spoil. Jihoon has his own concern, which is the absence of a bidet. “My anal is getting dirty. It’s so bad. Paper towel is not good. Scratch your anal. You so dirty,” Jihoon, international spokesperson for bidets, reports to everyone at home.
With the house in place Deavan has new priorities, and since this is 90DF the only possible option is getting married a second time. Deavan says that the most important part is having Drascilla as a flower girl, so she can throw grenades up and down the aisle while screaming she’s queen of the vampires, which I support. At some point Deavan puts a rug in the tub, while announcing that in the US of A that shit would have been tossed and replaced with a new one. Where in America is this America Deavan keeps referencing?
Seriously, can we cut the shit already? No one wants to see all these fools get married 20 times, just before the inevitable divorce. I’d rather watch them post heavily edited selfies on instagram than watch another stumble down the aisle. The one exception would be if the entire episode revolves around lubing up Drascilla to better slide her writhing body into a flower girl dress, while she screams that it burns. Could I watch this kid all day? Yes I could.
Tim and Melyza wake up next to each other, having finally got their fuck on. You can tell Melyza enjoyed herself by the way she runs her tongue over her teeth in the off chance she smiles. The producer notes that Tim is a big dude, and she insists that it’s not that Tim is big, it’s that she’s small. Um, okay. Guess you couldn’t give Tim that one.
They go to a park, where Tim marvels at the grass and trees and starts singing, “Put on a happy face.” Because 90DF is a musical now. Melyza knows she needs to come clean, but wants to know if there’s anything she can hold over his head first. They discuss the different vibe that comes from moving there, rather than having an extended vacation, and how they can actually have open, candid conversations. Tim confesses that there is some flirting that happened when they were apart, because apparently the office where he works is like a club with less enticing clothing. Melyza gets upset about this, despite the fact that she had a full on relationship going on, but this is a great thing to latch onto for flipping the script. He asks if she saw anyone, and she retorts, “I was single. Why do you care?”
His eyebrow accomplishes an eye hood I haven’t even seen from Colt. “It feels like she’s playing games with me,” Tim reports, which is rated MOSTLY TRUE by our fact checkers.
One of two things is true: 1.) Melyza’s relationship was serious, or 2.) She’s making this shit up.
Melyza insists her situation is different, and that she didn’t send him mixed signals…before he moved there. “WE WERE ON A BREAK,” Melyza Rosses.
Tim tries to have an unscheduled feeling, and Melyza says she’s being punished for honesty. Yes Melyza, that is the price honesty demands.
Later on she figures she should have the same conversation that she had with her mother three episodes ago, and said mother expresses the same opinion that they’re done that she said before. Riveting television, TLC. Melyza also admits she hasn’t been able to say “I love you” to Tim since all this went down, and hasn’t really processed being cheated on by someone she once trusted completely.
For his part, Tim and Pepe the Emotional Support Cat call up his therapist to wade through his own feelings of betrayal. He tells the therapist he feels blindsided, since the new relationship she ditched just one short month ago didn’t come up in conversation before he purchased airfare. The therapist tells him that now trust needs to be rebuilt from both sides. Tim is still grossed out at the idea of another dude cramming his tongue down his lady’s throat, or being big just because she’s small, and the therapist assures him that it’s alright to puke into his hands. She says that Melyza’s got to regain his trust now, which will take commitment and hard work. Tim thinks this road longer than he anticipated, and worries that they won’t make it.
As we watch this scene, 90DF is scouring the earth for The Other Man, praying he can make a Zoom appearance during the Tell-All. I see you, 90DF. I know you have drones now.
In Chicago, Brittany is living in a world without consequences where employment is optional, and still hasn’t worked out the puzzle of getting a divorce. She’s meeting up with her mom and sister, Virginia, to meet her new nephew and see her niece again.
“I want to have kids one day and have a nanny, or a dog or two,” Brittany reports, in case her line about digging for Arabic oil money didn’t already out her agenda. Virginia manages to not laugh. Britt just isn’t sure she’s ready for a lifetime of lying about the possibility of converting to Islam.
“Brittany is light years away from a Muslim woman,” Virginia says. She thinks that Yazan’s gonna want Brittany to change. Probably because he said exactly that. Virginia can’t believe she’s playing this game, and thinks Britt is not ready to pretend to move to Jordan. She thinks if Britt did convert, Yazan would become the overbearing asshole she saw at the airport 24/7.
Theory: Britt didn’t even file for divorce before she left, and the real reason she is in Chicago is that she can’t get out of marrying Yazan, and finally needs to file.
Yazan’s life continues to go on after Brittany boards a flight, and he’s left dealing with the consequences of her hasty departure. He meets up with his friend Muhammad to detail what’s been going down. It turns out relatives sent his father Brittany’s collection of publicly displayed tits and ass photos, which makes him even more suspicious of her true motivations, and so he tells Yazan he thinks Brittany is playing games. He insists they’re old pictures, like from weeks ago, and that she’s honest, and you can mutate facts if the powers of denial are strong enough.
Since his dad is unwavering in calling bullshit, he fires Yazan and boots him from the house, forcing Yazan to spend two nights urban camping. According to Yazan, instead of being honest for the first time in her life, Brittany told him she can’t come to Jordan until he ponies up for her plane ticket…and dude is unemployed. Yazan confesses that it seems like she’s living in another world, and there’s no care for him at all. Because there isn’t. Muhammad thinks Yazan should follow this instinct. “For the first time in my life, I feel like I made the wrong choice,” Yazan says. “The only airfare I can afford is to the Land of Oops. I’m hoping to meet Tim, Jihoon, and Ari there for tea.”
Next week: Armando doesn’t appreciate Kenny clocking in on his parenting, Yazan tries to get Brittany to acknowledge other people exist, Deavan is boring, Sumit finds out his wife wants $500 a month in maintenance, and Ari saves her son from genital mutilation.
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2020.10.18 00:27 redditorka123 Camera going inside vagina

My BF is 26yolder but despite of that ghosts me and ignores me for months and then acts like nothing happened. No, he is not married, he is investigative journalist and workoholic who has zero interest in sex.I know I should dump his ass but I stay with him only because he occasionally takes me on holidays. Feeling so stupid about it. He knows I don't have good self esteem and enjoys torturing me in many ways.
I am the kid who was bullied at school and at the same time abused by brother (he would put camera into bathroom when I was showering, touch me on private area when I walked by or coming into my room when I was sleeping and taking pics of my vagina and then laugh about it). Nobody knew. Nobody knows. Only you, strangers.
I am 24 and still stuck at home since I attend university. It's Faculty of Education which I picked because teaching really fulfills me and makes me feel good. But salaries are not good and I am scared I will always be dependent on someone. I would love to call myself a feminist, but can I when I am still dependent on someone? I am so sick of it.
My religious narcissistic mother hates me for having sex before marriage and not going to church. She just prefers men, she doesn't like women. She gossips about other women all day long and believes all the conspiracies and hoaxes she reads on the Internet.
I am sick of studying hard to get a degree in order to get a job with low pay. I am going to have state exams in January and have little self-confidence about passing the exams although I am a good student. I have to spend months studying because I can't learn many pages in 1 day and it's a lot of pages I have to learn. I just wish to finally get a job and gain some freedom. I am stuck at home for months, leaving home very rarely, have zero social contacts, no sex, except 1 one night stand with a guy from Tinder. It's 2am and I can't sleep. Again. I constantly live in stress, sadness, loneliness and isolation. Nobody cares, guys want just sex. I have some flaws, but I am good looking. Just lonely and feeling Nobody would ever understand or want me if they knew everything about me. Lol, nobody even cares about my personality, they just want sex. And although I tend to be very horny and want it too, I reject them since I despise them for just wanting to use me. I am so sad and bitter person inside. But from the way I present myself on social media, you could never tell something is wrong about me.
I am a coward afraid of dying and possibly getting into another hell in afterlife. I can't even kill myself. Only alcohol helps sometimes.
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2020.09.26 06:09 AdequateSizeAttache Setting the Record Straight on the Evidence of Prior Sexual Abuse - Part 2

(Continued from Part 1)
The Experts: Who are these people and what are their qualifications? Here is some background information on the consulted child sexual abuse experts who testified to JonBenet's prior abuse:
Andrew P. Sirotnak, MD, FAAP*
Dr. Sirotnak graduated with a MD from Thomas Jefferson University in 1989 and completed his residency in the Child Abuse Pediatrics program. From 1992-1994 he was the Pediatrics Chief Resident and Fellow in Child Abuse Pediatrics at the University of Colorado School of Medicine.
At the time of his involvement in the Ramsey case, he was the Director of the Child Protection Team at Children's Hospital Colorado and a professor in the Department of Pediatrics at the University of Colorado School of Medicine, positions which he still holds today.
His work and research has been published in: Child Abuse & Neglect, Child Maltreatment, Journal of Pediatric Surgery, Pediatric Clinics of North America, Clinical Pediatric Emergency Medicine, Pediatric Surgery International, Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine, and The Journal of Pediatrics. He co-authored a chapter on child sexual abuse in the textbook Berman's Pediatric Decision Making (5th ed.) and is one of the editors of the textbook Child Abuse: Medical Diagnosis and Management (4th ed.) which was released in 2019.

*Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics
Richard D. Krugman, MD, FAAP
Dr. Krugman graduated with a BA in Biology/Biological Sciences from Princeton University in 1963 and a MD from NYU School of Medicine/Sackler Institute of Graduate Biomedical Sciences in 1968. He completed his specialty residency training in the Pediatrics Residency Program at the University of Colorado School of Medicine in 1971.
From 1981-1992, he served as Director of the Kempe National Center for Prevention and Treatment of Child Abuse at the UC School of Medicine and was appointed to the U.S. Advisory Board of Child Abuse and Neglect in 1989, serving as Chair from 1989-1991. He is currently a Distinguished Professor in Pediatrics-Child Abuse and Neglect at UC School of Medicine and is regarded as one of the nation's leading experts on the subject of child abuse and neglect. In January 2018, Dr. Krugman co-founded the National Foundation to End Child Abuse and Neglect.
Dr. Krugman served as editor-in-chief of Child Abuse and Neglect: the International Journal from 1986-2001. He has authored over 120 papers in journals such as Child Abuse & Neglect, International Journal on Child Maltreatment, Pediatric Clinics of North America, Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine, and others.
He is co-editor of the books The Battered Child (5th ed.), Handbook of Child Maltreatment, National Systems of Child Protection: Understanding the International Variability and Context for Developing Policy and Practice, and C. Henry Kempe: A 50 Year Legacy to the Field of Child Abuse and Neglect.
James A. Monteleone, MD
Dr. Monteleone graduated with a BA in education from the University of Illinois and a MD from the Saint Louis University School of Medicine in 1962. After completing his residency he served as a pediatrics instructor at Northwestern University School of Medicine and as a physician at Children's Memorial Hospital in Chicago. In 1967 he joined the faculty at SLU as a professor of pediatrics and gynecology. He also practiced at Cardinal Glennon Children's hospital for over 34 years where he served as Director of the Division of Child Protection. He was regarded as an expert on child physical and sexual abuse and neglect.
From his obituary at slu.edu:
Dr. James Monteleone became an outspoken advocate for abused children, after seeing his first case of child abuse during his residency at Cardinal Glennon in 1962. He was a founding member of one of the nation’s first child abuse management committees and the first sexual abuse management committee, both formed at Cardinal Glennon shortly after the medical community recognized child abuse as battered baby syndrome.
In his years of practice, Dr. Monteleone witnessed more than 7,000 cases of child abuse.
...
In 1989, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services honored Dr. Monteleone with the Commissioner’s Award for Outstanding Leadership and Service in the Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect. He was the author of Recognition of Child Abuse for the Mandated Reporter and A Parent’s and Teacher’s Handbook on Identifying and Preventing Child Abuse, among other work on the subject.
Dr. Monteleone died on February 10, 2020 at the age of 87.
Valerie J. Rao, MD
A native of Madras, South India, Dr. Rao studied Zoology at Stella Maris College in Chennai. She graduated with a Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery from St. John’s Medical School at Bangalore University in 1971, after which she went to the US to complete a five year residency training program in clinical, anatomic, and forensic pathology.
At the time of her involvement on the Ramsey case, Dr. Rao was an associate medical examiner at the Miami-Dade County Medical Examiner's Office where she had been since 1981. She is noted for specializing in dealing with sexual assault victims, particularly children. In Miami she worked at the Rape Treatment Center at Jackson Memorial Hospital for 18 years doing forensic evaluations in cases of sexual assault and child abuse.
Dr. Rao has worked as a medical examiner in the states of Arizona, Missouri, and Florida and has taught courses in Pathology and Anatomic Sciences at University of Missouri School of Medicine. She served as Chief Medical Examiner for District 4 in Jacksonville Florida since 2011, a position from which she retired at the end of 2019.
Dr. Rao's research has been published in Journal of Forensic Sciences and The American Journal of Forensic Medicine and Pathology. She co-authored the books An Atlas of Forensic Pathology, Practical Forensic Pathology, and also co-wrote the chapter "Sexual Battery Investigation" in the book Forensic Pathology: Principles and Practice.
John J. McCann, MD, FAAP
Dr. McCann recieved his MD from University of Michigan's Medical School in 1957. After serving two years in the Navy as the base pediatrician in Annapolis Maryland, he joined the faculty at University of Washington and was appointed Chief of Pediatrics at Harborview Medical Center. McCann's colleague at Harborview was fellow pediatrician Dr. Shirley Anderson, an early pioneer in the field of medical assessment of sexual abuse. Harborview had one of the first hospital based programs for sexual assault and abuse evaluations in the country and Dr. Anderson served as its first director. Working alongside Dr. Anderson is how Dr. McCann developed an interest in child abuse evaluation.
Dr. McCann then moved to California to help develop a primary care training program for the Department of Pediatrics at University of California, San Francisco. While at the university-affiliated Valley Medical Center, McCann led research on a topic about which very little was known at the time: the anogenital anatomy of non-abused children. He and his team also conducted research and published articles on the healing of genital injuries, the use of colposcopes in evaluating prepubertal and adolescent girls for suspected sexual abuse, and developed the multi-method evaluation approach that is now used throughout the world.
At the time of his work on the Ramsey case, Dr. McCann was Clinical Professor of Pediatrics and the Medical Director of the Child Protection Center at the University of California, Davis Medical Center in Sacramento, California. He also served as Chairman of the American Professional Society Against Child Abuse's (APSAC) Committee on the Interpretation of Anal/Genital Findings in Child Sexual Abuse. At UC Davis he continued his research in the healing process of anal/genital injuries and also wrote the evaluation guidelines and protocols for reporting child sexual abuse in the state of California.
Dr. McCann established the standards for what is considered normal and abnormal in child and adolescent genital examinations. He has conducted or supervised medical evaluations of over 10,000 child sexual abuse victims and is "widely regarded nationally and internationally as a master anatomic diagnostician in the field.*" He regularly gave seminars to physicians and medical examiners on how to recognize abuse and testified in criminal trials for the defense where misinterpreted genital findings had led to false allegations of sexual abuse. He was committed to and advocated accuracy and integrity in medical evaluations to prevent false allegations against parents or caretakers.
He has authored numerous journal articles on the genital findings of both abused and non-abused children as well as textbooks such as The Anatomy of Child and Adolescent Sexual Abuse: A CD-ROM Atlas/Reference and Color Atlas of Child Sexual Abuse. His research continues to be used today in training programs for child abuse education.
Responses to dissenting opinions I'm aware of only one medical expert opinion that could be considered a dissenting opinion.
Werner Spitz, MD
Dr. Spitz was consulted by the police and coroner's office to review the vaginal injury evidence, including tissue slides and photographs, to help determine when in relation to JonBenet's death the acute vaginal injury took place. He concluded that it was inflicted very near or concurrent with the time of death. In his opinion the head blow came first, rendering JonBenet unconconscious, and the vaginal assault and strangulation which was inflicted some time later was staging. He said he saw "no clear indication of prior penetration," believing that the retracted and shriveled hymen could be explained by the acute assault.
Three things to keep in mind is that:
1) Spitz wasn't tasked to determine if there was prior vaginal trauma. His focus was on the sequence and timing of JonBenet's injuries including the acute vaginal trauma. Since he believed the acute injury was a staged sexual assault meant to cover up the fatal head blow, the issue of prior sexual abuse is not especially pertinent in his theory.
2) Spitz is not a specialist in child sexual abuse, pediatric anogenital anatomy, or the healing morphology of the genital injuries of prepubertal children.
3) He does not say there was no prior penetration, rather "no clear indication of prior penetration," which hints at reservation or uncertainty.
Responses to strawman arguments presented as dissenting opinions Dr. Francesco Beuf, MD, FAAP
JonBenet's pediatrician said he saw no evidence of sexual abuse during the time he treated her as a patient. From his letter to Boulder Police:
My office treated JonBenet Ramsey from March, 1993 through December, 1996. Throughout this period, there has been absolutely no evidence of abuse of any kind.
In an interview with Paula Woodward, when asked if he thought JonBenet was sexually abused, he stated:
I do not think she was sexually abused. I am convinced she wasn't sexually abused. [source]
Note that he does not deny that she was sexually abused, because he cannot deny it. As he did not suspect any abuse, Dr. Beuf did not evaluate JonBenet for sexual abuse nor conduct a genital examination for sexual abuse. It's not something he ever clinically assessed or ruled out, therefore, he can say only that he did not see evidence or signs of abuse or that he doesn't believe she was abused. That is not the same as stating the medical opinion that she was not abused.
When we talk about the evidence of prior sexual abuse, we are referring to the genital findings, particularly of the hymen, observed at JonBenet's autopsy. By his own admission, Beuf never examined JonBenet's hymen. He did not see the genital findings from the autopsy. He did not see the prior hymenal injury that the experts describe. His opinion that JonBenet was not sexually abused is based on clinical history and social/familial history as provided to him by her parent, not the anatomical evidence. Dr. Beuf's opinion does not even address the evidence, much less refute it.
Michael Dobersen, MD
This statement by Dr. Dobersen from a 2006 article sometimes gets cited as a dissenting medical opinion:
[On the question of whether the autopsy findings indicated chronic abuse] "Arapahoe County Coroner Dr. Michael Doberson says you would need more information before you could come to any conclusion.
This is not a dissenting opinion. Dr. Dobersen is declining to give an opinion.
Thomas Henry, MD
In the 1998 documentary JonBenet's America, this statement by Denver medical examiner Dr. Thomas Henry is presented as a rebuttal to the evidence of prior abuse:
From what is noted in the autopsy report, there is no evidence of injury to the anus, there is no evidence of injury to the skin around the vagina, the labia. There is no indication of healed scars in any of those areas. There is no other indication from the autopsy report at all that there is any other previous injuries that have healed in that area.
Note that this comment refers only to two specific areas: the anus and the skin around the vagina (the labia). Either Dr. Henry has been misinformed about what the experts actually said about JonBenet's genital injuries, or this is a deliberate straw man. The evidence of prior abuse has nothing to do with the anus or the skin around the vagina (the labia). It is misleading for the documentary to present this information as if it were relevant to the evidence of prior abuse.
Leon Kelly, MD
In the documentary The Killing of JonBenet: The Truth Uncovered, Colorado Springs medical examiner Dr. Leon Kelly is solicited to review "the evidence on prior sexual abuse" (i.e., a copy of the autopsy report provided by the documentary crew) and give his opinion. This is what Dr. Kelly had to say:
The exam reveals no evidence of healing, or prior injuries. No evidence of scarring. No evidence of other changes or findings which forensic pathologists look to to indicate prior sexual abuse.
Much has been made about a few lines of information where the pathologist describes some chronic inflammation. Some have extrapolated that to mean 'well, we've got chronic injury, therefore we've got chronic sexual abuse.' In fact, that's not what those few words of text mean. Vaginitis, which is a very nonspecific term for inflammation, is very common in children and can be due to things as simple as irritation from soap or poor wiping. So common to the point that it's essentially a normal finding. And to extrapolate someone else's guilt as far as inflicting sexual abuse, that's not based in science.
1) Dr. Kelly is correct that the autopsy report contains no information about indications of healed scars or previous healed injuries. However, that doesn't mean there were none present. Interpreting such details was outside the scope of the coroner's abilities; it would have been inappropriate for him to comment on it in the autopsy report. Per standard protocol when a coroner is uncertain about a finding, experts were later consulted to make an assessment. Much of the prior abuse evidence was documented and established outside of the autopsy report. It is misleading for the documentary to conflate the autopsy report with the "evidence on prior sexual abuse."
2) This statement attempts to reduce the evidence of prior sexual abuse to chronic inflammation, vaginitis, and erythema from soap or poor wiping. Once again, the evidence of prior sexual abuse is not based on chronic inflammation, vaginitis, erythema, or any other nonspecific findings. It is based on findings which meet the criteria specific for nonacute penetrative trauma.
Woodward's 'four experts'
In her book and in interviews such as this HLN documentary, Paula Woodward claims that four experts testified to there being no prior sexual abuse.
I have already responded to this claim in this post.
FBI
The FBI believed that JonBenet's vaginal trauma was not consistent with a history of sexual abuse, and they had turned up no evidence of any other type of abuse. The sexual violation of JonBenet, whether pre or postmortem did not appear to have been committed for the perpetrators gratification. The penetration, which caused minor genital trauma, was more likely part of a staged crime scene intended to mislead the police.
[Perfect Murder, Perfect Town, Lawrence Schiller, p. 305]
This is the opinion of FBI criminal profilers, not medical experts. It is an assessment based on behavior and elements of the crime and crime scene, not genital findings.
Melinda and John Andrew Ramsey
John Ramsey's two older children, Melinda and John Andrew, have stated there was no abuse in their family.
This is not a medical opinion.
Carnes Order
No evidence, however, suggests that she was the victim of chronic sexual abuse. (SMF P 50; PSMF P 50.)
This is not a medical opinion. It is a claim taken from a document called Defendants Statement of Undisputed Material Facts which was prepared by the Ramseys' defense attorneys in the 2003 civil case Wolf v Ramsey.
Responses to common myths Experts disagree/are divided on the prior sexual abuse
The experts most qualified to assess the evidence, the child sexual abuse experts consulted by Boulder Police and the Boulder County Coroner's Office, were unanimous in their conclusion that there was physical evidence of prior sexual abuse. No one has disputed their findings.
The evidence of prior sexual abuse in this case is based on the genital findings documented during autopsy. Interpreting genital findings should be done only by skilled clinicians with expertise in pediatric anogenital anatomy and sexual abuse evaluation criteria. This is emphasized in every modern clinical manual or textbook on child sexual abuse evaluations:
All other opinions — by those who haven't seen the genital findings and/or lack expertise in child sexual abuse evaluations and pediatric anogenital anatomy— are just noise.
Bubble baths/urinary issues/UTIs/vaginitis could explain the prior sexual abuse evidence
Child abuse experts are acutely aware what findings are caused by bubble baths, urinary issues, UTIs, vaginitis, and that they are not specific for sexual abuse. Their area of specialty is in distinguishing normal/nonabuse findings and findings that mimic abuse findings from actual abuse findings. No child abuse expert is going to mistake a common nonspecific finding like inflammation or erythema for an abuse finding; that is specifically what they are trained not to do.
The evidence of prior sexual abuse is based on findings that meet the criteria specific for nonacute penetrating trauma.
Findings caused by bubble baths/urinary issues/UTIs/vaginitis are listed in the Adams classification guidelines. See points 12 and 13 under section B ("Findings commonly caused by medical conditions other than trauma or sexual contact") and point 23 under section C ("Findings due to other conditions, which can be mistaken for abuse.")
Horseback/bicycle riding or other physical activity could explain the prior sexual abuse evidence
JonBenet's pediatrician was in the best place to recognize abuse
It is a mistake to assume pediatricians are capable of detecting every case of child abuse. The unfortunate reality is that abuse is missed all the time by medical professionals and caretakers, even by those trained to recognize it. Sexual abuse is, by its very nature, secretive. It almost always occurs when the child is alone with the offender. Victims tend to delay or avoid disclosure. In fact, we now know from decades of research that many children who have experienced sexual abuse grow up before they tell anyone about what happened. Many children exhibit no symptoms of sexual abuse at all.
Historically, one of the problems that has hindered clinical recognition of sexual abuse is that many physicians, including pediatricians, have found it hard to imagine that their child patients are victims of sexual abuse. Suzanne M. Sgroi, an early pioneer in raising awareness of child sexual abuse in the medical community, emphasized this point in a 1975 article where she told medical practioners that "in order to make the diagnosis of child sexual abuse, one must entertain the possibility that it occurs."
The same sentiment was echoed in 2000 by Astrid Heger:
Although we have made tremendous progress over the past fifteen years, sexual abuse continues to present a unique challenge to the medical professional. Making the diagnosis requires that clinicians first come to terms with their own inner rejection of the fundamental concept that adults use children for sexual gratification.
[Astrid Heger, MD. Evaluation of the Sexually Abused Child: A Medical Textbook and Photographic Atlas, p. 2]
Sexual abuse being a discomforting taboo topic is a problem that child abuse experts have been trying to correct for a long time. Another problem is the tendency for people (including physicians and healthcare providers) to hold assumptions or biases about what victims of sexual abuse are like, and what what perpetrators of child sexual abuse are like.
From statements he has made, it sounds like Dr. Beuf held such assumptions about JonBenet. His belief that she was not sexually abused seems based largely on his own psychosocial assessment of her and his impression of her family. JonBenet was a "sweet", "charming", "fun", "extraordinary" child, full of "happiness" and "niceness", someone "much loved by her parents." It seems Dr. Beuf could not fathom that someone like JonBenet could be a victim of sexual abuse, or that it could occur in a family like hers.
The fact is, children who are well-adjusted and happy can be victims of sexual abuse. People who are financially successfull, educated, upstanding members of the community can be perpetrators of sexual abuse. Sexual abuse occurs in all kinds of families across different socioeconomic and education levels. It's not possible to profile who is a victim or perpetrator of sexual abuse by assessing demographics and demeanor.
It is also a mistake to assume that pediatricians have sufficient knowledge and training in recognizing sexual abuse, conducting evaluations for sexual abuse, or familiarity with pediatric genital anatomy. On the contrary, pediatricians are undertrained in matters relating to child abuse.
Pediatricians receive the most training on abuse related topics, but they are still undertrained.
[Suzanne P. Starling, MD, FAAP. Medical Response to Child Sexual Abuse: A Resource for Clinicians and Other Professionals, p. 263]
Several studies have demonstrated a shortfall in physicians' and pediatric residents' knowledge about sexual abuse and ability to label basic parts of prepubertal genital anatomy.
One study surveyed 370 physicians who treat children, once in 1986 and again in 1996. In 1986, 51.1% of them were able to correctly identify the hymen in a photograph of prepubertal female genitalia. In 1996, 61.7% were able to correctly identify the hymen.
In another study based on a survey of 139 pediatric chief residents between 1998-2000, 71% correctly identified the hymen in an anatomic photograph. The residents surveyed in the study reported varying amounts of training on issues pertaining to child sexual abuse and half of those surveyed thought their training in sexual abuse during residency was inadequate for practice.
A comparative study by Makoroff and colleagues found that 70% of the female genital exams diagnosed by pediatric emergency medicine physicians as abnormal were diagnosed normal by child abuse-trained physicians who reexamined the findings.
It's unknown what level of child abuse training Dr. Beuf had. His areas of specialty were in asthma/allergy and neonatology. He entered medical school in 1972; any training, if any, he received at that time would have required later updating.
Diagnostic acumen in child abuse can be a reflection of the decade during which a physician trained. Child sexual abuse research did not become prevalent until the late 1980s. Physicians trained during or before that time who have not had updated training may be basing their knowledge on obsolete and incorrect information.
[Suzanne P. Starling, MD, FAAP. Medical Response to Child Sexual Abuse: A Resource for Clinicians and Other Professionals, p. 260]
Some comments made by Dr. Beuf in interviews lead me to question if his training and knowledge in the areas of child sexual abuse evaluations and genital anatomy were sufficient.
In a 20/20 Primetime interview, Diane Sawyer asked Beuf:
DIANE SAWYER: If there had been an abrasion involving the hymen, you would have seen it?
Dr. FRANCESCO BEUF: Probably. I can't say absolutely for sure because you don't do a speculum exam on a child that young at least unless it's under anesthesia.
To me, this response betrays an unfamiliarity with the standards and protocols of sexual abuse evaluations and genital anatomy.
First, specula are not used with prepubertal girls except in certain cases (for example, to find the source of unexplained bleeding, a mass or a foreign body). They are not used at all for genital evaluations of prepubertal girls.
The anogenital examination in cases of suspected sexual abuse of the prepubertal child is principally an external visualization by varying techniques of separation, traction and positioning. It does not require anal or vaginal palpation or the use of specula.
[B. Herrmann, F. Navratil, Sexual Abuse in Prepubertal Children and Adolescents, p. 8]
Second, the hymen is at the entrance of the vaginal orifice and can be easily visualized without instruments. The purpose of the speculum is to see past the hymen at the vaginal walls and cervix, not at the hymen — the use of a speculum would not only impede the view of the hymen it will damage the hymen. Anyone with a basic understanding of prepubertal female genital anatomy and knowledge of how genital examinations are done would find the notion of a speculum being needed to examine the hymen absurd.
Another comment which indicates a lack of anatomical familiarity is Dr. Beuf's use of "vaginal exam" (which is synonymous with pelvic exam, an internal exam) when he means "vulval exam" or "extragenital exam." The implication between the two types of exams is important to distinguish.
In his defense, if Dr. Beuf was undertrained in these areas, it would not be atypical of a pediatrician at the time, according to the research.
In sum, I see no reason why someone who:
would be in a better place to recognize abuse over those who:
I think we should all remember what pioneering child abuse pediatrician, Dr. C. Henry Kempe, told a conferenceful of pediatricians in 1977:
Moreover, it is common for children, who are regularly cared for by their pediatrician, to be involved in incest for many years without their physician knowing. Incest makes pediatricians and everyone else very uncomfortable.
[C. Henry Kempe, MD. Sexual Abuse, Another Hidden Pediatric Problem: The 1977 C. Anderson Aldrich Lecture]
The evidence of prior sexual abuse isn't conclusive
What is conclusive is the evidence of prior vaginal penetration, as demonstrated by the presence of a transection on JonBenet's inferior hymenal rim.
This finding is one of only a few reliable indicators of sexual abuse among prepubertal girls. On its own, it's not conclusive of sexual abuse. Combined with other information, it can be conclusive of sexual abuse. In JonBenet's case, an absence of a history for this finding combined with the rest of JonBenet's genital findings and history led five child abuse experts to conclude that JonBenet had been sexually abused prior to her murder.
Why I find the evidence of prior sexual abuse convincing The evidence of prior sexual abuse is convincing simply because there's an unexplained transection of the inferior hymenal rim, in which case the default suspected cause is sexual abuse.
In prepubertal girls, transections of the inferior hymenal rim resulting from causes other than sexual abuse (i.e., accidental penetrating trauma or surgical intervention) are rare and need to be accounted for in order to rule out the more common cause which is sexual abuse. If no explanation for the injury is provided, either from the child, caretaker, or the child's medical history, medical protocol requires that the case be reported and investigated for suspected sexual abuse.
In JonBenet's case, the Ramseys were unable to provide an explanation for the prior hymenal injury, and whatever medical information and history provided to police gave no explanation either. Significantly, JonBenet herself could not explain it because she was found murdered in her home with acute penetrative injuries to her vagina and hymen.
On top of that is the unanimous assessment by multiple child abuse experts whose credentials speak for themselves. These experts have knowledge we don't have and they saw evidence we haven't seen. I see no reason to question their assessment.
Conclusion The evidence of prior sexual abuse is not based on criteria or findings that are not specific to sexual abuse, such as:
The evidence of prior sexual abuse is based on:
There is no medical debate on this issue. Some doctors who are not qualified to give an opinion have disputed the conclusion of the child abuse experts, but that's it. No one has disputed the specific findings of the experts. The notion that "the experts are in disagreement" and "there's evidence to support both sides of the debate" is completely false.
Why this is important to me Of all the evidence that I see get misrepresented in this case, I think this one bothers me the most. I hate seeing it dismissed or denied by those who don't even have a proper understanding of it. I find it insulting for anyone to suggest these highly qualified and trained experts who have dedicated their careers to accurately identifying signs of sexual abuse are so incompetent as to not be able to distinguish bubble-bath-induced vulvovaginitis or erythema from sexual abuse. They do; being able to tell the difference is quite literally the entire purpose of their subspecialty.
Due to all of the misinformation surrounding it, I don't think enough people realize how medically sound the evidence of prior sexual abuse actually is. That is a disservice to JonBenet and her case.
Autopsy is the art of speaking with the dead. Dead men girls do tell tales, as the saying goes in forensic pathology. JonBenet's body is an important piece of evidence that reveals what happened to her, not only on the night she died but days, weeks, or months before. Many knowledgable and reputable medical experts got together and examined her to help tell that story. Unless there's evidence they are wrong, then I think we should listen.
To quote something straydog77 once said in reply to a prior abuse denialist:
Those are physical facts. Identified by the nation's leading expert on pediatric genital anatomy. Those are the injuries. Though Jonbenet cannot speak, her injuries can testify on her behalf. No amount of smoke and mirrors from you will erase those injuries. Thank God. You cannot silence this child.
 
Sources On the Ramsey Case
Perfect Murder, Perfect Town - Lawrence Schiller
JonBenet: Inside the Ramsey Murder Investigation - Donald A. Davis & Steve Thomas
Foreign Faction: Who Really Killed JonBenet? - A. James Kolar
Mortal Evidence: The Forensics Behind Nine Shocking Cases - Cyril Wecht, Greg Saitz, and Mark Curriden
Who Killed JonBenet Ramsey? - Cyril Wecht and Charles Bosworth, Jr.
We Have Your Daughter: The Unsolved Murder of JonBenét Ramsey Twenty Years Later - Paula Woodward
Autopsy report
Bonita Papers
January 30, 1997 Search Warrant
Patsy Ramsey 1998 police interview
Steve Thomas 2001 deposition
Reddit AMA with Mark Beckner
Reddit AMA with James Kolar
Julie Hayden KHOW Dan Caplis interview transcript
Julie Hayden Channel 7 news report
Krugman on Burden of Proof
Daily Camera - Report indicates sexual assault, experts conclude
Daily Camera - Autopsy evidence leaves experts in disagreement
Girl Had No History Of Being Abused
KUSA-TV interview with Dr. Beuf
ABC Primetime Live interview with Dr. Beuf
[sources continued in comments]
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2020.09.26 06:09 AdequateSizeAttache Going camera inside vagina

[This post has been split into two parts because of selfpost character limits.]
Introduction It surprises me how often I see discussions involving speculation on whether JonBenet's UTIs, vaginitis, bedwetting, and history of frequent doctor visits indicate sexual abuse or not. These discussions invariably include people chiming in to share how they or someone they know had similar issues but were never abused. From these discussions, one could get the impression that itchy pageant costumes or Mr. Bubble useage are perfectly reasonable explanations for the evidence of sexual abuse.
The fact is, there's no need to speculate based on these things. There is physical evidence that is a significant indicator of prior sexual abuse. This is the evidence that should be at the forefront of discussions on the question of sexual abuse, not bubble baths or bedwetting. Issues such as vaginitis, UTIs, and bedwetting are not specific to sexual abuse; there are other possible explanations for them. There is no other possible explanation for the physical evidence besides trauma from physical penetration.
In reading discussions on the case over the years, it's always puzzled me how often the evidence of prior sexual abuse gets downplayed or dismissed. In considering why, I believe it is due primarily to these two common misconceptions:
Common Misconception 1 (as demonstrated above): The evidence of sexual abuse = vaginal irritation, UTIs, rashes, bedwetting, soiling, frequent doctor visits
Common Misconception 2: There is a medical debate on the issue and there's evidence to support both sides
Common Misconception 1 is a straw man argument — the actual evidence (the physical findings) is not being addressed or refuted.
Common Misconception 2 is an argument from false equivalence. An equal, rather than accurate, amount of weight is given to both sides of the issue. People see the mountain of conflicting information and contradicting opinions and think "It looks like expert opinion on this issue is divided; I guess a case can be made for either side." The enormous difference in expertise and experience between the various experts is ignored, as is the level of access they had to the evidence. This misconception gives the impression that all these expert opinions cancel each other out, rendering the issue debatable and open to interpretation. Consequently, the probative value of the evidence is undermined, making it easier for people to feel they can dismiss.
I think several factors have contributed to these two misconceptions:

However, if one takes a closer look at the evidence, it becomes apparent that it is not weighted equally on both sides. There is no medical debate, but a medical consensus. Every child sexual abuse expert who examined the genital findings from JonBenet's autopsy recognized physical signs of sexual abuse that predated her murder. Despite some objections to their conclusion, no one has disputed the physical findings of these experts. Their findings are compelling and should be seriously considered. In order to do that, though, one must first understand what the findings are and get acquainted with the doctors who testified to them.
The purpose of this post is to lay out everything that is known about the evidence of prior sexual abuse, but also to put it into a larger context so that hopefully it will be better understood. This will involve delving a bit into the history of child sexual abuse evaluations (it will become relevant later), as well as some background information of the experts involved. I will also go over dissenting opinions and address some common counterarguments and myths.
The evolution of modern pediatric sexual abuse evaluations: A brief historical timeline 1857 - One of the first known forensic medical studies on child sexual abuse, Étude médico-légale sur les attentats aux mœurs (Forensic study on offenses against morals) by French medical doctor and pathologist Auguste Ambroise Tardieu, is published. This treatise describes various forms of child abuse and maltreatment and includes anatomical drawings of genital findings which by modern standards are considered surprisingly accurate and ahead of its time. For some reason these efforts are largely ignored and it will be over a century before interest in sexual abuse evaluations from a medical perspective is resurrected.
1940s-50s - Child sexual abuse remains an unacknowledged taboo. Medical textbooks of this era tell doctors that children can contract STIs like gonorrhea from non-sexual means, such as from toilet seats, sharing towels, or sleeping in the same bed as an infected adult. Such myths will pervade for decades.
1962 - "The Battered Child Syndrome" by pediatrician C. Henry Kempe is published and physical child abuse is recognized. A watershed moment in pediatrics and child abuse protection. This article is about detecting hidden signs of physical abuse using modern radiological technology and newly proposed evaluation guidelines. Detecting chronic or hidden sexual abuse, however, will prove to be a more enduring challenge.
Late 1960s - By now all 50 states have child abuse protection laws in place.
1970s - Feminist campaigners and policymakers take up the cause of child sexual abuse. Most child protection workers during this period are social workers and therapists. The field of child abuse protection and evaluation is in its nascency.
1974 - Congress enacts the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA, P.L. 93-247). CAPTA creates a nationwide focus on establishing standardized protocols for dealing with all forms of child abuse and neglect. Mandatory reporting is one component of CAPTA. Before, only doctors were required to report cases of suspected child abuse; now, it is anyone in a position of authority — teachers, camp counselors, etc. Consequently, there is a significant increase in the reporting of child abuse cases and an increase in the demand of evaluations for suspected sexual abuse. Most of the physicians doing these medical evaluations are not researchers or academics but work with prosecutor's offices and law enforcement.
1975 - Suzanne M. Sgroi, physician pioneer in the field, publishes an article calling child sexual abuse "the last frontier in child abuse" which "remains a taboo topic in many areas."
1977 - C. Henry Kempe brings awareness to the issue of child sexual abuse by following up "The Battered Child Syndrome" with a landmark lecture at the Annual Meeting of the American Academy of Pediatrics in New York City. The talk, titled "Sexual Abuse, Another Hidden Pediatric Problem" is published in the journal Pediatrics the following year.
1980s - Doctors start examining children's genitals, documenting, cataloging and trying to interpret their findings. Some use a colposcope, a binocular-like instrument originally used to detect cervical cancer, which magnifies the vaginal canal and tissues up to 4-30x. Some take anatomical measurements which they use to develop criteria for suspected abuse. They know what findings they see in abused children, but there is an acute lack of understanding of what "normal" or nonabused genital findings look like.
1981 - The article "Sexual Misuse: Rape, Molestation, and Incest" by Dr. Bruce Woodling is published in the journal Pediatric Clinics of North America.
Dr. Woodling is a California physician whose area of specialty is in sexual abuse forensics. The paper presents his research on what he has dubbed the "wink response test", a concept borrowed from Tardieu's 19th-century forensic manual. This test involves stroking the area near the anus with a cotton swab and gauging the response — contraction of the sphincter indicates no abuse, while an involuntary opening or 'winking' response indicates prior penetration. It was a test Tardieu developed to diagnose pederasty and Woodling has applied it to children as a way to detect anal abuse.
1982 - The wave of daycare sexual abuse hysteria of the 80s begins with the Kern County abuse allegations. The investigation and trial will culminate in the conviction of two couples (the McCuans and Kniffens) for sexually abusing several children. Dr. Woodling's wink response test and testimony play a part in their conviction. Several other similar cases in the same area at the time result in convictions of several others.
1984 - Daycare abuse hysteria continues with the Fells Acres and McMartin Preschool accusations. In the Fells Acre case, day care teacher Gerald Amirault will be put on trial and convicted of sexually assaulting and raping nine children. Questionable interview methods of the children and unproven genital evaluation criteria form the basis for the conviction.
The McMartin preschool case is the first to receive major media attention in the United States. Pediatrician Astrid Heger, under the tutelage of Dr. Bruce Woodling, conducts many of the evaluations of the McMartin children and diagnoses the majority of them as having been sexually abused. The criteria used for the evaluations are based primarily on Woodling's research as well as other published papers at the time (e.g., Cantwell's 1983 study on hymenal diameter measurements). Many of the children are found to have suspect genital findings such as notches, clefts, bands, tissue tags, ruffled or rolled hymenal edges, 'microtraumas' seen only with magnification, hymenal openings which measure over four millimeters, as well as positive reactions to Woodling's wink response test.
mid to late 80s - More abuse allegations and convictions including Country Walk, Wee Nursery, Bronx Five, Little Rascals day care, Glendale Montessori cases.
1988 - Dr. John McCann, a pediatrics professor and researcher from UCSF School of Medicine, drops a bombshell at the 18th annual child abuse convention in San Diego. He presents the results of a study he and his colleagues have worked on the past four years. They had gathered a control group of about 300 nonabused/"normal" children and meticulously documented and photographed their anuses and genitals, the first such study to do so. What they learned shocked McCann and everyone else in the field. Many of the anatomic findings which some specialists were claiming to be signs of abuse were commonly found in the nonabused children. The study showed that the large variation of anatomical features of childrens' genitals were, in fact, just that — variations of normal. This meant that parents and caretakers were being reported and convicted based on erroneous unscientific criteria. This presentation, titled "Anatomical Standardization of Normal Prepubertal Children," is a watershed moment in the field.
1989 - The first paper based on McCann's study ("Perianal findings in prepubertal children selected for nonabuse: a descriptive study") is published in the journal Child Abuse & Neglect. Among its conclusions, it shows that Dr. Woodling's wink response test has no scientific basis.
The impact of McCann's study influences leaders in the field to call for an overhaul in the way sexual abuse evaluation criteria are approached:
Medical Examination for Sexual Abuse: Have We Been Misled?
The more we learn, the less we know "with reasonable medical certainty"?
1990s - This decade sees an explosion of research and progress. The second paper based on McCanns' landmark study ("Genital findings in prepubertal girls selected for nonabuse: a descriptive study") is published in the journal Pediatrics in 1990. The dropping of charges in the McMartin preschool trial, also in 1990, marks the beginning of the winding down of the nation's abuse hysteria. McCann's research is presented as evidence by the defense in some abuse trials, such as the McMartin and Little Rascals daycare cases.
1992 - A classification system for evaluating children for suspected sexual abuse is proposed by Dr. Joyce Adams, Katherine Harper and Sandra Knudson. This later becomes known as the Adams classification system (keep this system in mind as we will be referring back to it) and will be periodically revised with updated criteria throughout the following decades. It will be adopted and used in the field of child abuse pediatrics and gynecology worldwide. John McCann's research help form a basis for this system.
mid to late 90s - More research based on cross-sectional, case-control, and longitudinal studies of abused and nonabused children are published which improves understanding and accuracy of evaluation criteria: Berenson, Heger, Adams, Emans, Kellogg, Kerns, McCann, Muram, Finkel, etc. Due to the errors of the previous decade, specialists in the field are highly conscientious and prudent about differentiating nonabuse from abuse criteria.
The evidence of prior sexual abuse in the JonBenet Ramsey case: What we know When Boulder County Coroner Dr. John Meyer performed JonBenet's autopsy, he identified signs of acute vaginal trauma which he believed was consistent with digital penetration. What we didn't find out until the publication of James Kolar's book Foreign Faction in 2012 is that Dr. Meyer also saw indications of prior sexual contact. Concerned about this possibility, he sought a specialist opinion and brought Dr. Andrew Sirotnak to the morgue to examine JonBenet's genital injuries. Dr. Sirotnak was a child abuse pediatrician who headed the Child Protection Team at Children's Hospital Colorado. He confirmed Meyer's opinion that there were signs of prior sexual contact.
Here are the relevant passages from Kolar's book:
  • Dr. Meyer also observed signs of chronic inflammation around the vaginal orifice and believed that these injuries had been inflicted in the days or weeks before the acute injury that was responsible for causing the bleeding at the time of her death. This irritation appeared consistent with prior sexual contact.
    [Foreign Faction: Who Really Kidnapped JonBenet?, A. James Kolar, p. 58]
  • Following the meeting, Dr. Meyer returned to the morgue with Dr. Andy Sirontak, Chief of Denver Children's Hospital Child Protection Team, so that a second opinion could be rendered on the injuries observed to the vaginal area of JonBenet. He would observe the same injuries that Dr. Meyer had noted during the autopsy protocol and concurred that a foreign object had been inserted into the opening of JonBenet's vaginal orifice and was responsible for the acute injury witnessed at the 7:00 o'clock position. Further inspection revealed that the hymen was shriveled and retracted, a sign that JonBenet had been subjected to some type of sexual contact prior to the date of her death. Dr. Sirontak could not provide an opinion as to how old those injuries were or how many times JonBenet may have been assaulted and would defer to the expert opinions of other medical examiners.
    [Kolar, p. 61]
  • Dr. Meyer was concerned about JonBenet's vaginal injuries, and he, along with Boulder investigators, sought the opinions of a variety of other physicians in the days following her autopsy. Dr. Sirontak, a pediatrician with Denver Children's Hospital, had recognized signs of prior sexual trauma but neither he nor Dr. Meyer were able to say with any degree of certainty what period of time may have been involved in the abuse.
    [Kolar, p. 63]
Boulder Police would later ask several child sexual abuse experts to review the autopsy findings* in order to help them determine if there was evidence of prior sexual abuse. In addition to Andrew Sirotnak, these are the experts whom we know were consulted:
Richard Krugman
James Monteleone
Valerie Rao
John McCann
That's right — that John McCann. The same John McCann who was responsible for putting child sexual abuse evaluations onto scientific footing and who happened to establish the standards for what is considered normal and abnormal in pediatric genital exams was consulted on the JonBenet Ramsey case.
In Steve Thomas's 2001 deposition for the Wolf v Ramsey civil trial, Thomas says that McCann came recommended by the FBI. There's a reason for that, which is that McCann was regarded as one of the the foremost authorities on interpreting pediatric anogenital findings in cases of suspected abuse. Thomas also refers to McCann, Monteleone, and Rao as the "blue ribbon pediatric panel." Based on various sources, we know that there was at least one meeting in Boulder in September 1997 involving McCann, Rao, Monteleone, and Krugman.
Here is the relevant passage from Thomas's book:
In mid-September, a panel of pediatric experts from around the country reached one of the major conclusions of the investigation - that JonBenet had suffered vaginal trauma prior to the day she was killed.
There were no dissenting opinions among them on the issue, and they firmly rejected any possibility that the trauma to the hymen and chronic vaginal inflammation were caused by urination issues or masturbation. We gathered affidavits stating in clear language that there were injuries "consistent with prior trauma and sexual abuse"...."There was chronic abuse"..."Past violation of the vagina"...."Evidence of both acute injury and chronic sexual abuse." In other words, the doctors were saying it had happened before.
...
The results, however, were not what is known in the legal world as "conclusive" - which means that there can be no other interpretation - and I would fully expect defense lawyers to argue something different. Nevertheless, our highly qualified doctors had brought in a remarkable finding.
[JonBenet: Inside the Ramsey Murder Investigation, Steve Thomas & Don Davis, p. 253]
The experts expected to testify in court had the case gone to trial. As we know, there was no criminal trial, but we know the experts were called to testify before the grand jury.
*During JonBenet's autopsy, an instrument called a colposcope was used to examine and document her genital injuries. This is standard procedure in forensic pathology in cases of suspected child abuse or sexual assault. Colposcopy illuminates and magnifies the vaginal cavity and is used to identify abnormal changes to tissue and the internal genital structures. The experts would have relied on these colposcopic photos as well as histologic samples of JonBenet's vaginal mucosa in addition to the autopsy report, coroner's notes, and lab results.
The physical findings explained These are the genital findings we know were discovered at JonBenet's autopsy:
Ref. no. Finding Source
1 Chronic inflammation around vaginal orifice FF
2 Small amount of dried blood on perineum AR
3 Small amount of dried and semifluid blood on skin of fourchette and in vestibule AR
4 Hyperemia of vestibule and vaginal wall AR
5 Abrasion on hymenal orifice at 7 o'clock position, involving the hymen and vaginal wall AR
6 Epithelial erosion with underlying capillary congestion of tissue from 7'oclock AR
7 Hymenal orifice measuring 1cm x 1cm AR
8 A lack of hymenal tissue between the 10 and 2 o'clock positions AR
9 Vascular congestion and focal interstitial chronic inflammation of vaginal mucosa in all sections AR
10 Bruise on hymen BP
11 Three dimensional thickening from inside to outside of inferior hymenal rim BP
12 Narrowing of inferior hymenal rim to base of hymen BP
13 Exposure of vaginal rugae BP
AR = Autopsy Report
BP = Bonita Papers
FF = Foreign Faction
What do these physical findings mean?
Here is a quick break down:
  • 5, 6, and 10, with corresponding bleeding 2 and 3, are signs of acute trauma from the time of the murder.
  • 7 is something that gets brought up as evidence of prior abuse ("enlarged hymenal opening"). However, criteria based on hymenal opening measurements were removed from the Adams classification guidelines in 1996. McCann did not include it in his criteria for abuse, but said it supported the findings for abuse. Since the late 90s/early 2000s, specialists have tried to move away from using measurement-based criteria as it is difficult to do precisely. Research data has shown that measurements can vary with the examination position, technique, age of the child, state of relaxation of the child, and the skill of the examiner.
  • 8 describes a crescentic hymen, a common variation of hymen types. This is a normal finding. Generally, discrepancies of the anterior half of the hymen (above the 3 and 9 o'clock positions) are not considered concerning and missing segments, notches, clefts can be normal findings. It is the inferior half of the hymen (below the 3 and 9 o'clock positions) where experts look for indicators of abuse.
  • 11-13 are findings observed by John McCann that describe structural changes of the hymen from a prior penetration. 12 describes a transection (a healed laceration) of the inferior portion of the hymen.
  • 1, 4, 9 can be caused by a variety of other conditions and on their own are not classified as indicators for abuse. In the case where findings indicating abuse are also present, they need to be considered in context.
McCann's findings
The most important of these findings to understand is 12, which is one of McCann's observations outlined in the Bonita Papers.
There was a three dimensional thickening from inside to outside on the inferior hymeneal rim with a bruise apparent on the external surface of the hymen and a narrowing of the hymeneal rim from the edge of the hymen to where it attaches to the muscular portion of the vaginal openings. At the narrowing area, there appeared to be very little if any hymen present.
To understand what this means, take a look at the white line segment labeled "Hymenal width" in this colposcopic photo (warning: image of vagina/hymen). It demarcates the length of the hymenal membrane from the rim/edge to the base where it attaches to the vaginal wall.
A narrowing of the hymenal rim means the hymenal membrane is reduced in dimension from the rim/edge toward the base. When the rim is narrowed all the way to the base, that is called a complete cleft or a transection. A transection is a discontinuity of the inferior hymenal rim that extends to or through the base of the hymen. Basically, it is a telltale residual absence of tissue from a healed complete laceration.
If this is difficult to visualize, here is a figure which shows what transections look like:
Figure 3: Hymenal Membrane Characteristics
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The Adams classification system
In the fields of child abuse pediatrics and pediatric gynecology, the set of guidelines most widely used in interpreting genital findings is the Adams classification system.
If we were to look at the most recently revised version (2018), we would see that it identifies certain "findings caused by trauma":
These findings are highly suggestive of abuse, even in the absence of a disclosure from the child, unless the child and/or caretaker provides a timely and plausible description of accidental anogenital straddle, crush or impalement injury, or past surgical interventions that are confirmed from review of medical records.
Among those findings that are "highly suggestive of abuse" includes point 37, listed in the subsection titled "Residual (healing) injuries to genital/anal tissues" under section E:
Healed hymenal transection/complete hymen cleft, a defect in the hymen below the 3-9 o'clock location that extends to or through the base of the hymen, with no hymenal tissue discernible at that location
This is precisely what Dr. McCann described having observed in JonBenet.
A transection in the inferior half of the hymen of a prepubertal child is a significant finding because it is considered a clear indication of a prior penetrating injury:
  • Multiple studies have noted the presence of hymenal transections only in prepubertal girls with a history of disclosed sexual abuse.
    [ Sara T. Stewart, MD. Hymenal Characteristics in Girls with and without a History of Sexual Abuse, p. 533]
  • Hymenal transections are very rarely seen in prepubertal girls who have not been sexually abused. However, a demonstrated transection, based on multiple studies, is commonly viewed as “a clear but uncommon indicator of past trauma.”
    [Mishori, R., Ferdowsian, H., Naimer, K. et al. The little tissue that couldn’t – dispelling myths about the Hymen’s role in determining sexual history and assault.]
  • Thus a deep notch, transection, or perforation on the inferior portion of the hymen may be considered as a definitive sign of sexual abuse or other trauma.
    [Berenson, et al. A case-control study of anatomic changes resulting from sexual abuse, p. 829]
  • A transection of the posterior hymen between 4 and 8 o’clock in prepubertal girls suggests genital penetrating trauma; however, the presence of this finding is not confirmatory of sexual abuse. Posterior hymenal findings including transections between 4 and 8 o’clock, deep notches, and perforations were not seen in studies of prepubertal girls without a history of genital trauma from sexual abuse included in this systematic review. Therefore, one can conclude that the posterior hymenal findings of transections, deep notches, and perforations are extremely infrequent findings among children without a history of genital trauma from sexual abuse or other means. [...]
    However, because the prevalence of posterior hymenal findings (between 4 and 8 o’clock) such as transections, deep notches, and perforations are near zero in nonabused prepubertal girls, the presence of these examination findings suggests genital trauma from sexual abuse. In the absence of known genital trauma from accidental means, the possibility for sexual abuse must be strongly considered. In a prepubertal girl with a posterior hymenal finding of a transection (between 4 and 8 o’clock), a deep notch (between 4 and 8 o’clock), or a perforation, a report to child protective services should be strongly considered. At a minimum, an examination by a child abuse specialist should occur to confirm these findings and to help provide a careful interpretation regarding the likelihood of sexual abuse.
    [Molly Curtin Berkoff, MD, MPH; Adam J. Zolotor, MD, MPH; Kathi L. Makoroff, MD; et al. Has This Prepubertal Girl Been Sexually Abused?, p. 2790]
If any doctor or medical provider today observed a transection on the inferior half of the hymen of a prepubertal female patient, he/she would be required to make a report for suspected sexual abuse and an explanation would be required for how that healed injury got there. In forty years of research, this finding has not been seen in any other instance besides from penetrating trauma. In prepubertal girls, it is indicative of sexual abuse unless it can be shown otherwise.
What the evidence says The evidence says JonBenet had been subjected to at least one penetration of the vagina through the hymenal membrane prior to her murder. The penetration caused a complete laceration of the inferior hymenal membrane. After the laceration healed, a transection and other structural changes of the hymen remained.
The age of the prior injury could not be determined, but based on his research on the healing of hymenal lacerations of prepubertal girls, it was McCann's opinion that it was more than ten days old. His research has shown that "most signs of an acute [hymenal laceration] injury were gone within 7 to 10 days." Some of the experts thought the prior injury could have been weeks or months old.
While the evidence could conclusively prove only one prior penetration, the experts believed there had been more than one instance of penetration/sexual contact and that JonBenet's genital findings indicated abuse that had been repeated or ongoing. They were unable to determine how many incidents over what period of time.
Four of the five experts (Sirotnak, Monteleone, Rao, McCann) were confident in their opinion that JonBenet's genital findings were diagnostic of sexual abuse. One (Krugman) could not disagree with that assessment, but lacking certain forensic evidence (i.e., the victim's testimony, the confirmed presence of sperm, or an STI), was unwilling to assume a sexual motive for the abuse. He felt there was evidence only of physical abuse of the genitals.
What else could explain the prior penetration/ hymenal trauma besides sexual abuse? There are three known causes of transections in the inferior hymenal rim in prepubertal girls — penetrative sexual abuse, accidental penetrating trauma, and surgical intervention.
Most accidental genital injuries sustained by children are straddle-type injuries that involve a fall onto the horizontal bar of a bicycle, jungle gym, or picket fence. This type of accident involves compression of the soft tissues against the bony margins of the pelvic outlet. Trauma is usually limited to the external structures of the genital area (e.g., labia, clitoral hood, fourchette, perineum).
Accidental penetrating or impalement injuries that involve trauma to the hymen are relatively rare:
Of 161 accidental genital injuries reported in the literature, 3.7% involved the hymen.
[Child Abuse: Medical Diagnosis and Management, 4th ed. Antoinette Laskey and Andrew Sirotnak (eds.), p. 359]
However, they do occur and the resulting injuries can mimic those of sexual abuse. In such cases, it is important that the cause of the injury be confirmed.
Whether an acute or healed genital or anal injury is identified, it is incumbent on the medical professional to obtain a complete history of the nature of the injury. [...]
Key differences in the history of accidental trauma, such as a straddle injury, are that accidental injuries are more commonly observed by a third party, medical attention is sought immediately after the injury, a scene-of-injury visit confirms the plausibility of the injuries and the accompanying history, and the pattern of injury is consistent with the history.
[Child Abuse: Medical Diagnosis and Management, 4th ed. Antoinette Laskey and Andrew Sirotnak (eds.), p. 359]
If JonBenet's prior hymenal injury was the result of an accident or a past surgical procedure, it should be reflected in her medical records and easy to prove. An accidental penetrating injury that results in a complete laceration of the hymen is considered severe, one that would be painful and cause bleeding. It would be expected that most parents or caretakers would seek medical attention for their child's injury.
We know the Ramseys were not timid or frugal when it came to getting medical attention for JonBenet's injuries and ailments. We have records of her being seen by the doctor for various bumps, falls, and injuries, such as a bent fingernail from a fall, a bruised nose from faceplanting at a grocery store, a bump on the brow from a tripping fall, and a small cut to the cheek from a golf club swing. If JonBenet had sustained an accidental genital injury that resulted in a severe laceration, I find it very hard to believe she would not have been taken to the doctor for such an injury when she was taken for lesser injuries and ailments.
Clearly, there was nothing in her medical records that could account for such an injury or the Ramseys would have provided it to police.
 
(Continue to Part 2: The experts, responses to dissenting opinions and common myths, etc.)
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Today I spoke out for the Truth Project, which is an independent enquiry into child sex abuse in the UK. Please look at this project if you are a survivor living in the UK.
This is the story of my childhood abuse please don't read ahead if you don't feel you can because I do talk about the abuse I experienced.
I was born in the UK, at the time we lived on an RAF base as my father was in the forces. My parents were young both 21 and had got married whilst my mum was pregnant with me. A bit over a year later my sister was born. That completed the family unit of 4. We lived on RAF bases for a couple of years then moved to Cornwall where we would reside for many years to come. My Father left the forces when moving to Cornwall. I don’t really remember living on the RAF bases or moving to Cornwall, Cornwall is all I really know, I was probably about 3 and half years old when we moved there. I remember living in a couple of houses for a very short period of time before moving to a house on a council estate, when I was about 4 years old, where we would live for 9 years. It was a perfect location really, my Nan lived a few doors up and there was plenty of space outside to play and other children of the same age to play with. I made friends with a girl of the same age who lived a 2 doors down and went to the same primary school as me. Our families became friends and we would see each other a lot and always had birthday parties together and even see each other on Christmas. There were two other families on the estate who also had children the same age as me and in my year at primary school, I got on with one well and the other was very on and off. Another family moved in a few years later who we would become close friends with too who lived opposite. Growing up wasn’t always easy living on a council estate, we had neighbors who would stay up all night partying making so much racket so that we couldn’t sleep for school, there was arguing all the time somewhere on the estate late at night and the police would always be visiting someone’s house due to disturbance. We had people break into our garden a lot and even our home. My mum would be threatened with knives etc. if she asked them to turn the music down and people would always want to fight (including the children). It wore my mum down living with noise and disturbance all night all the time. No matter how many times you reported it to the housing association or the police nothing ever seemed to be done about it.
My mum worked full time to provide for our family and was the main breadwinner, she worked shifts including night shifts as she was a carer. My father had different jobs, I don’t really remember exactly what they were, I remember one was fixing PlayStations and one was caring but other than that I don’t remember. He was at home a lot around the age of 7 onwards as he didn’t have a job for a while and was a stay at home dad. My Nan and my Aunty looked after my sister and I a lot when my mum was working, we were all very close. We would spend weekends at our aunts and during the week Nan would take us to school.
I loved going to school, I enjoyed learning new things, I think most children like primary school. We walked to school mainly because it was not far. I always did well in school all of my parent evenings were always positive and they never had any concerns about my learning. My sister also did well in school. My favorite subjects were science and maths. I had many friends at primary school and they all lived close. There would always be your usual fallings out but they never lasted long. However, in the later few school years in primary school the girl on my estate whose relationship was very on and off and another girl who lived a bit further up the road took a disliking to me and bullied me about the way I looked, the way I acted and would say horrible things about my glasses and would try and do activities with all of my other friends so that I was left out alone. My teacher in year 6 was also very horrible about my hair, I had a fringe and my mum didn’t always have the time to cut it, it was in my eyes one day and the teacher was horrible about it and made me cry. My mum complained to the head teacher about this. When it come to choosing which secondary school there was only one option for me really and it was the school where the bullies weren’t going. It meant it was further away but I could have the chance of not seeing them all day every day as the bullying continued after school when I went outside to play too. One child on my estate, who was the brother of the girl who lived on my estate and was bullying me, bullied me the most and the worst, if I went outside he would push me, punch me, say mean things, one time he even got me in a headlock and kept punching and punching my head, nearly knocking me unconscious, my mum had to call the police. As I got older living on the estate just got worse, the bullying was daily and I felt I couldn’t leave the house much unless it was to go to my nans or my friends two doors down. My sister was out playing all the time as her friends were nice most of the time.
There was one other thing that was happening, on top of all the bullying, during all of this, behind closed doors, I was being sexually abused by my father. Its hard to write that and its still so sore, I think it will always hurt but I’m used to it hurting now. It started around the age of 6/7 maybe slightly earlier. It was always when my mum was at work, which was a lot. I never blame my mum though she was doing her best to provide for our family and give us the best life possible, if she didn’t work then we wouldn’t have a house over our head etc. Plus how was she supposed to know this was happening. It started when my father told me to sit on his lap as he wanted to show me something on his computer, what he would show me was adult porn, I had no idea what it was I was watching being to young but I remember I wasn’t comfortable watching it, I would often look away and try and get off his lap to go outside to play, he would hold me tight on his lap and say I can go outside after I have finished watching it. This would happen a few times a week. My sister was always playing outside or round her friends house when this would happen. It then escalated from there, he would masturbate with me on his lap whilst the porn on was on the computer. I would never know what to do I just felt uncomfortable but I didn’t understand what was happening I was only a young child, how was I supposed to know.
One morning I was watching a film or TV program on the telly and my father came over and went to lie behind me for cuddles, this wasn’t unusual everyone has cuddles with their parents as a child, but this time it was different. He pulled a blanket over us and put his hand down my trousers and pants, touching me where he shouldn’t, this carried on. I just lay there not know what to do. He would say to me don’t tell mummy this is daddies special time. This became a regular occurrence, happening numerous time a week depending on what shifts mum was on. It happened in most rooms of the house when I could be doing anything, I would just freeze and not really say anything. Again my sister was always out on these occasions.
When my father put my sister and I to bed he would often read us a story, he would always lie in my bed to read the story, this was so he had easy access to touch me, he would wait until my sister was asleep then do it, or if my mum was working tell me to come into his room, I would often say that I didn’t want to but he would grab my arm and start to pull me to the room and tell me not to make a fuss. He would then touch me, force me to touch him and eventually after a few times of this he then proceeded to rape me. The first time I cried, I kept telling him I didn’t like it and that it hurt and all I wanted to do was sleep, he would whisper in my ear to keep still it won’t take long then I can go back and go to sleep. I couldn’t wait until it was over. Again, he told me not to tell mummy as mummy would get very angry with me and my sister and I might go into care. After the first few times I gave up fighting all the time whilst it happened as it was no use and then I used to just stare up at the ceiling and count the little bumps and try and forget what was happening. I knew what was happening wasn’t quite right but I didn’t realise the true extent and damage that was being caused by his actions. Over the years there was not a part of my body that had not been violated by him.
He would pull me upstairs from downstairs I would fight to get away at the bottom of the stairs but his grip was too tight, I would protest when he pulled me to his bed in the early hours of the morning and keep me there until an hour before school. However sometimes I didn’t have the energy to fight so I just complied, it was easier that way, it was going to happen no matter what. As I got older probably about the age of 9/10 I didn’t fight at all anymore, you might ask why, the reason was because I had endured years of this happening practically daily unless my mum had a few days off work and it became the norm, another big reason is because if I didn’t do it then I was always afraid he would then do it to my sister. I would have done anything to protect my sister, as it happened to me for years I just agreed so that he could never decide to do it to her. My aim was to protect her from what was happening to me.
I wanted to tell someone when I realised that I was being sexually abused, this realisation happened when I was about 11. I said to my father that I was going to tell and he threatened me, frightened me, when I was in the bath one time he held me under water long enough to scare me thinking I was going to drown and then told me if I told then next time I would get hurt or go into care. I couldn’t tell, no matter how hard I wanted to. So I kept it secret. My behavior never changed during this time, I played with my friends when I could, no one would know any different, I showed no typical signs that something was wrong. I know my mum and sister blame themselves for not knowing but how can you know when nothing ever changes to let you know differently. The people that carry out these actions they do so very carefully and they know how to manipulate their victims into not saying or showing signs that anything is wrong. I don’t blame them so why should they blame themselves. No one has a crystal ball you don’t know what you can’t see. The teachers did not know because I was doing well at school, I never acted out and I was always a seemingly happy child to everyone on the outside.
I had one main coping mechanism over these many years that enabled me to get on and hide this secret and still be able to try and live a ‘normal’ life. It was my dog. My dog saved my life. After every incident that took place, whether I waited until later that day or the day after, when I was alone I would tell my dog what happened and tell my dog how I felt. She would cuddle me, we lay on the floor just cuddling or we would be playing. She knew everything. I got everything off my shoulders, she held my deepest darkest secrets but couldn’t tell anyone. I loved my dog, I don’t think I would have endured life if it wasn’t for my dog. That’s how I managed to forget between episodes and try to be a child. I was telling, just not to someone who could help.
I used to love sleepovers around my nans, my aunts and my friends because I was safe. My sister and I would also have friends stay over ours as well and I was safe then too.
One day when I was 13 I came home from school after my sisters sports day and mum was upset, she explained to my sister and I that dad had been taken away by the police to help them with an investigation but that he wouldn’t be coming back for a while. My sister and I wouldn’t believe what was happening and were very upset. I asked if I could go and see my friend over the road and mum was hesitant at first but then agreed I went running over there and was crying, they asked what had happened and I told them, my mum then came over and thought it was best that I go home. When we got back home mum told us in more detail what had happened and a social worker was there. My father has been arrested for sex offences against a minor. The report had come from the family that I just visited. I felt betrayed, they knew why I was crying but pretended not to know. I didn’t speak to them after, in my mind they had take my father away from me. I hated what was happening to me behind closed doors but at the end of the day as a child I felt that he was still my father, I had split them into two people, one was my father and one was a monster, this made it easier to live with. The social worker asked us if anything had ever happened to my sister or I, I instantly denied everything, my sister also said no. They had no reason not to believe us, my mum had no reason to not believe us either. So no further action from the social worker happened.
A new life has begun on this day, although at the beginning I was so upset that my father had been taken away, I would later realise what this actually meant for me. I was free, although I thought I was, I was free from the actual abuse but little did I know I was not free from the suffering that the abuse caused.
My father plead not guilty to the case and therefore it went to court, it was reported in all the newspapers and Cornwall being small and us having quite an unusual surname everyone knew it was my father even if the newspaper didn’t name us as his children. The bullying that I received became unbearable, I would be spat on, pushed on the floor, beaten up, excluded from everything, name called, I would be told multiple times a day that my family is disgusting, that I am disgusting. I didn’t want to go outside. The outside world was horrible, kids are horrible, but it wasn’t just the kids, the mother of the family over the road, the ones that reported this to the police, she would stare horribly at us like we were a piece of rubbish, she would know that her children were being so so horrible and not do anything about it. She would pull her children away from us if we passed in the street. I would just come home and cry in my bed for hours and cuddle my mum all the time jut crying because of the bullies. The bullying felt worse than the abuse I had received for years because I had learnt to cope with that. I had no coping mechanism for this and there felt like no escape. My mum spoke to the school about what had happened and they tried to out measures in place to keep me away from the bullies but that didn’t stop them outside of school. Secondary school has its own challenges for any normal child let alone all of this on top. I was lucky I had a best friend in secondary school who was there for me no matter what and stuck by me through everything.
There was a long wait for the case to get to court whilst all evidence etc. was gathered. My father moved to Manchester close to his family. He got a new girlfriend in this time, a woman who I later found out he was having an affair with whilst with my mum. My mum allowed my sister and I telephone contact with our father after we asked to keep in contact. I was angry at my father for having another girlfriend. My sister missed him a lot. I put on a brave face and spoke to him like normal because I didn’t want anyone to suspect anything and I could see how much talking to him meant to my sister. During the wait for trial we saw my father for dinner once in a pub, my mum attended as she did not trust him on his own with us, which was understandable, we caught up talking about school and how he was settling in up in Manchester all the usual things you would talk about, anything but the court case. A few months later we visited him up country, he lived with his new girlfriend. I was extremely nervous about visiting but I was brave, I did it so my sister could see him. I played over and over what I would do if he tried to do anything with me again and I was certain I would fight and I wasn’t afraid to tell someone if something did happen. Nothing did thank goodness. I felt relieved when I got home.
During this time my father announced that him and his girlfriend were having a new baby. I was furious as I found out over Facebook. He was too much of a coward to tell me first because he knew I would be so angry. Not only was I angry because I didn’t like the fact he had a new girl firmed but because he was bringing a new life into the world when he couldn’t even keep the ones that he already had safe. I was worried that if it was a girl she could be at risk and I wouldn’t be there to protect this one. I shouted and screamed and swore down the phone at him. He had the baby not long before the court case and it was a girl. My biggest fears came true. I just kept thinking how could his girlfriend be so stupid, he was about to go to court accused of sex crimes against children and yet she had a baby with him!!
The court case came and the details were all in the paper, this is when I found out the details about what had actually happened. I knew what had been accused was true. My sister’s friend had stayed over for a sleepover, she had blonde hair like me and was probably a similar height. She slept in my bed. My father drank John Smiths most evenings and I could always smell it on his breath. He had probably drank that night. He then got into her bed and touched her in appropriately in the night. I instantly felt guilt and shame, I felt like it was my fault because it was my bed. I kept thinking I shouldn’t have let anyone stay in my bed then they wouldn’t be subjected to this like I was. I now know 10 years later that it wasn’t my fault and it was his actions not mine however I still feel guilty about it and I don’t think that will go away. At the end of the court case, he was found guilty and was sentenced to 2 years in prison, it was a small sentence due to it being his first offence and him being an upstanding member of society having worked in the forces and helping in the community with air cadets etc. I felt like I had to try and forget about this now and try and move on with my life it was all over officially now, no more contact he was in prison I didn’t have to worry anymore, I thought I would feel better.
As time went on my mum, sister and I started to rebuild our lives after the embarrassment caused by everything being reported in the papers. The newspapers had no consideration for the families involved when publishing these stories, no consideration on how this would affect our lives. The aftermath of it all. The bullying continued for me for years to come. I took my anger and hurt out on my mum and my sister which strained our relationships but we were determined to get passed it.
I didn’t know where my father was in prison nor did I know when he was due out or what would happen when he was released but one day probably about a year on from him being sent to prison I woke up one morning and I wanted to tell my mum what happened. I was nervous about it and didn’t know how to approach the subject but I was just filled with the overwhelming sense that I needed the weight lifted and this day was the day. I leapt out of bed and barged into my mums room and said I had something to tell her and I just blurted it out. My mum was stunned by what I had said but gave me the biggest cuddle and told me that everything was going to be OK, I cried and she cried. She believed me straight away, she didn’t even question it. I can’t remember exactly what I said to her but remember she asked me a couple questions and I answered them. She wanted to go to the police hut I said I wasn’t ready for that and if she did I would deny it because I wasn’t ready to talk to them. I just wanted to tell someone. He couldn’t get me I was safe so there was no need to tell anyone else at that moment. My mum held me and told me that when I was ready I just had to let her know and we would go together. I made her promise she wouldn’t go until I was ready. I’m so grateful that my mum believed me straight away and was there for me and made me feel comfortable to tell her. I couldn’t have asked for more from her and for that I’m so thankful, she listened and didn’t force me into anything I wasn’t comfortable doing yet. After that we just carried on with everything like normal, like nothing had happened and that’s how I wanted it.
A few months or about a year later I woke up again with the same overwhelming sense that that was the day to go to the police. I didn’t feel safe for some reason or another and I wasn’t sure why, I had not reason, or so I believed, to feel like that. I went into my mums room and said I’m ready to tell now. She knew what I meant and she phone in to the school and said that I won’t be in today and she phoned work. We got ready to walk to the police station, she asked me if I wanted to take my Teddy, this was the same teddy I slept with every night, the same teddy that was older than me that had always gone with me wherever I went including into the hospital for various surgeries or broken bones etc. I took my Teddy as my safety blanket. I felt sick but I knew I needed to do this. I wanted to do it, I didn’t want him to get out and go back to his new family and down the line he would do it again to his new daughter. The police officer seemed nice as did the social worker. I went into a room with them both and sat on a sofa whilst they were in two chairs, the room was made to try and make you feel more comfortable but it reminded me of my great nans living room. They pointed out the cameras and explained everything to me and we proceeded. They said to start from the beginning which I did, but then they needed more detail, they needed me to tell them every exact little detail I could remember about every single time. However, if you experience something daily it all merges together especially daily over a period of 7 years. There were a few occasions that reoccurred and so these remained vividly in my mind, or there was a couple where I really put up a fight, I also remembered these. I told the officer and social worker but I struggled to actually say the words, rape, vagina, penis, or describe in detail what had actually happened because it was as though I had to believe it had actually happened. All this time it was just something at the back of my mind that I tried to forget and now it’s all at the surface. The secret that I had held in for so long. The office kept asking and asking so he could get all of the information he needed. I think I could only describe in detail 5 exact occasions but I did explain that this happened everyday practically. It was not a comfortable experience and to be honest I think it’s one I do not want to experience again ever. It has probably put me off reporting anything just because it was so intrusive and because of that I feel I could not get my point across properly; the memories were locked away so deep they didn’t want to come out.
At the end of the interview the officer asked if I had any requests, I explained that I did not want this reported in the papers because of the bullying that all came from last time it got reported. It was agreed with the officers and my mum that the case would be held out of County to try and stop the media from publishing this. I was grateful for this. It was later that day that we found out that it was on that day that I went to the police that my father was due out of prison. I did not previously know this, today I still think it’s such a strange coincidence that it was that day that I felt that I needed to go to the police. He was released then arrested at the gate.
He plead guilty and believe he said something along the lines of I don’t want to put her through anymore. So, there was no trial, only a sentencing. However, after the case got transferred to out of county we did not hear anything further other than it was due to go to court. The police officer knocked on the door after the court case and apolagised about what he was about to give my mum. He gave her a piece of paper with the sentencing details on, he only had to serve a minimum of 5 years. The police officer always felt that he would have got longer if the case was heard in Cornwall but I couldn’t handle that. 5 years was not enough, it was not even the same amount of time he had taken from me. 5 years is nothing and goes by in a flash. We were all very hurt and angry. After I went to the police, I became very ill, physically and emotionally, it was as if my body had gone into shock, where it had released that thing that was stuck inside for so long. I was exhausted. We were not offered much help after and was not contacted by any victim care unit. My social worker had to fight to get me some help. She managed to get me some counselling sessions with a company called jigsaw she specialised in Child sex abuse. My therapist was called Maggie and she was lovely. I talked about as much as I wanted to at the time but it wasn’t a lot, I felt like I had already said enough and that talking more was making me unwell. I had the maximum sessions allowed (12 sessions). Maggie felt I needed a lot more help and a referral was made to CAMHS.
When I finally got an appointment with CAMHS I saw a psychiatrist for medications and a therapist to talk. I did not like either of them and you had no choice to change. I did not feel comfortable talking to these strange people so I did not engage well. It was at the CAMHS service that I was diagnosed with being clinically depressed and having PTSD. I didn’t attend there for long then referred back to my GP.
My relationships with my mum and sister really suffered after this. I had so many emotions still inside that I did not know how to cope with any of them, I was always so overwhelmed by them. I had been so numb for so many years and now to actually feel any emotion was so difficult for me I just didn’t know how to cope. Therefore, I lashed out at my mum and sister. I am so sorry for this now I didn’t mean to make their lives harder than they already was. I appreciate them more than ever for putting up with my behavior.
Other than that help it was just my mum, my sister and I just trying to muddle to get through. No help was offered to my sister who was 11 at the time I went to the police and must have been traumatised by the events, no help offered to my mum who obviously had so much guilt and blame. We just had to try and muddle together which was so hard! My mood swings were awful and unpredictable you never knew what kind of mood you were going to get if you spoke to me. This was a long struggle and continued until I moved out when I was 18. It was at this point my relationship with my mum and sister really improved and helped it mould into the great close relationship it is today. I’m so close with my sister she is my best friend. Yes, we bicker sometimes but all siblings to. My mum and I are so close, she is my rock and knows me better than anyone else.
I seeked more help when I was 21, I felt as though at this point in my life I had so much still inside that I needed to get out finally. I went to a WRASAC and received another 15 sessions of counselling, again the maximum number of sessions. I felt that this did really help this time. It was hard but I felt the pain was worth it. I thought that it would improve my depression and my ptsd and it did for a very short time however at 25 they are just as much a struggle as when I was 13 if not more so.
When I was 25, I visited my GP concerned about my moods, depression, exhaustion, flashback and more. In Cornwall they the community mental health services could only take on people in crisis. My GP felt that this was not me. I was put on more antidepressants and advised to be referred for more talking therapy, which would be just general cbt and not necessarily catered for the severe trauma I had experienced. I had tried so many different antidepressants over the years and talking therapy limited to a number of sessions only saw a tiny improvement in my moods. I shortly moved to London after this with my boyfriend and when I arrived, I contacted the local IAPT. They called me and we discussed my problems the psychiatrist agreed to accept me into the community mental health team and I now await trauma-focused CBT, I’m not sure how much it will work but I’m willing to try anything now. It’s been 10 years this year since my father was sentenced to prison for what he had done to me. This year I found out by chance he was released 2 years ago and I was not informed, not only was I not informed but I was not included in any parole talks therefore he now lived in very close proximity to family that I would visit regularly I feel now I cannot ever visit this family. He still has control over my life, after complaints being investigated it appears this is due to an administrative mistake on behalf of the police force not passing my details on to a victim care unit and the probation service not having access to other areas databases. I have been truly let down once again by the people who are supposed to protect me. This has caused my mental health to deteriorate. All the hard work I have put in, smashed. I now have to work to try and build this back up. On top of this I always have the thought that when I was younger I imagined I would feel better by this age... 10 years is a long time, however I don’t. Every day is a battle to wake up and get out of bed. The smallest tasks are tiring because I’m always having this constant mental battle with myself and I have been having it for 10 years, I’m beyond tired of fighting. I still have the smallest bit of hope that things will still get better but I must say this year has definitely made that bit of hope even smaller.
The only positive is that now I am stronger. I now have the courage to speak out about my abuse. I want there to be more education of child sex abuse, I don’t want it to be the taboo that it is. If I had known what was really happening at the young age of 6/7 I would have been more likely to have told my mum, nan or Aunty or maybe a school teacher about what had happened and could have saved years and years of assaults. This was not spoken about at school. Also there needs to be more education on safe relationships between people who are familiar including parents, children need to know what is right and wrong in parental and family relationships. This is not talked about. Awareness needs to be made. This will save our children.
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2020.09.08 15:51 FewCicada8744 Realistic Artificial Vaginas: Perfect Masturbators, Male Pocket Pussy

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Minuses
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How does the mechanism work?
Automatic blowjob is made possible thanks to the piston system. The motor produces translational movements instead of classical vibrations.
It is enough for the user to put an artificial vagina on any hard surface and lower the penis inside.
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I had no difficulties with cleaning and drying, as the sleeve is easily removed and inserted back.
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The material is very delicate. It remains as elastic even after washing. My advice to beginners: do not start immediately with three speeds! If you are too sensitive, you may feel uncomfortable. My favorite setting is average. If you also want to try artificial vagina, start with Autoblow 2. You no longer wish to experiment with other options.
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It seems simple, but it is not. This department will give you the most enduring experience.
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Minuses
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What do you offer in the kit?
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I had some difficulty cleaning. You need to clean each tubercle inside the sleeve thoroughly. But it’s worth it! Sleeve size will fit 70% of guys. Be sure to try it!
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This kit will be ideal for lovers of automatic sex. The male masturbator is installed inside a particular robot.
You only control the settings. Moreover, each user has access to a whole catalog of hot videos in 3D format.
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Description of sex Launch The automatic mode is fully synchronized with the actions on the screen of your TV. Choose any hot video on the Feelme website (after buying a sex robot, you will have access to a video library).
In manual mode, the user independently changes the speed and amplitude of the blows.
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Pros
  • In interactive mode, Launch is fully synchronized with the video script.
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Minuses
  • You must use Fleshlight as a fake vagina.
  • The price of the kit is quite high.
What is included in the order? In the kit you will be delivered:
  • Stoya’s sleeve allows you to not only relax but also gradually train your stamina.
  • Shockproof case suitable for storage and convenient use of pocket pussy.
  • The launch is the most comfortable sex robot on the market.
  • A small bottle of the perfect water-based lubricant will take your senses to the next level.
User review Of course, this kit is not a cheap treat. But you will be happy if you try. Auto mode is just unique. Full synchronization with video allows you to forget about reality!
Convenient touch strips on the right and left on the case help you to work in manual mode.
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I got used to the interface very quickly. The machine can withstand several sessions without recharging.
4. Doc Johnson Mood Exciter Double-Sided Stroker
This pocket vagina doesn’t look realistic. But it has two inputs of different diameters.
The cameras also have different internal textures, so the sensations are different.
Pros
  • A ribbed texture accompanies a narrower entrance. Following the full opening, you will find soft, exciting hillocks.
  • The patented Sil-A-Gel material feels like it imitates real skin. In this case, the material is resistant to bacteria, hypoallergenic, does not lose shape when washed.
  • Channel diameter is ideal for 80% of guys.
  • The sleeve can be used underwater and cleaned thoroughly.
  • Low cost will please fans of new sensations.
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Minuses
  • Be sure to use only water-based creams.
  • The unrealistic design prevents some users from focusing.
  • The sleeve is a little short. Guys with a large penis can pierce it through, which slightly worsens the sensations.
Buyer Feedback This pocket vagina does not look realistic or even dull. But the internal texture allows you to forget about it quickly!
The material is just unique! It is soft and slippery on the inside and slightly rough on the outside. You do not need any case to use it!
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2020.08.31 18:59 WatchoutforaSerena Camera going inside vagina

Previously on Harry Styles' Drag Race: Shocking, Solid, Styles, ass, That's hot, legs, Peacock, kiss, spicy, murder! verdadeiro, VMA.
Episode 4 - The Vagina Game
The girls come back into the Werkroom. Weird lines of drawing are tangled on the mirror with a note on the bottom right. "Sorry girls, we tried to write with our other hand. :)"
(confessional) Carly: Alexa and Siri just got eliminated and I am completely over the moon. (confessional)
Carly: Bye Amazon Prime and Microsoft Grady.
Nyxtamore: I think that what just happened is a reminder that we just cannot slack on the lipsync or we will get executed.
California: That's hot.
Serena: Well talking about getting executed, Dora almost got chopped.
Dora: Well it's Harry Styles Race and I'm like a superfan so I'm gonna win, duh.
Serena: It's Drag Race, not getting your ass dragged on the race.
California: That's cold.
(confessional) Dora: Crying. I just don't understand why everyone is so mean to me. I'm just saying that they suck at their living. (confessional)
Carly: Girls, I think we should be nicer to Dora, she had a hard time in competition so far.
Dora: Thanks.
Carly: Don't worry, just don't let anyone making you think you're trash.
(confessional) Carly: Dora's Drag is trash. Her personality is trash. Her looks are trash. Her makeup is trash. Her tastes are trash. Her old grandmother dying of tuberculosis is trash. (confessional)
Yuhua: Narrates. The winner of Harry Styles Drag Race will win an autograph from Harry's mother and be cast in a gay porn threesome with one of the guys wearing a Harry Styles's mask.
Tammie: Well well, the room is getting emptier than a Trump rally. Today ladies, the mini-challenge is a "Right or Wrong." Oh, fur crew!
Furries bring paddles with Right and Wrong written on them.
Tammie: So basically, the rules of the game is that I will list some things that are said to have been found inside Michelle Visage's vestigial vagina, and you girls will have to answer Right or Wrong... Are you ready? Here it comes. Rupaul's money. Rupaul's platinum credit card. Rupaul's soul. Rupaul's fracking contracts. Aj and the Queen Season 2. A penis. A man. A woman...
The Queens choose their answer for each suggestion.
Tammie: Interesting. Serena Cha Cha, you're the only one with a 100% correct. How did you guess that only penis was the wrong answer?
Serena: Well look at her, who would top Michelle Visage?
Everyone makes a rich laugh.
Tammie: So ladies, the maxi-challenge of this week is the Vagina Game. Each of you will have to impersonate a celebrity and write your answers to some questions on condoms.
California: That's hot.
The Queens look into their supermarket bags and pull out their celebrity costumes.
Yuhua: Hey hookers, the producers told me to come in the Werkroom to shook you up with my advice thinly-veiled into passive-aggressive insults... So Granny, who did you choose?
Granny: Well when I was a child there was this famous woman called Cleopatra.
Yuhua: Oh I see, but there's one problem. Cleopatra was known to be rather young, and you're old as fuck! Yuhua walks toward Beatrix. So Mrs. Weirdo, where's your hoe?
Beatrix: Well I choose Mona Lisa.
Yuhua: Mona Lisa? You're aware that she can't talk?
Beatrix: Yeah, but it's out of the box.
Yuhua:... Yuhua walks away. So California, who's your celebrity?
California: That's hot.
Yuhua: Oh, Paris Hilton, good choice.
California: That's hot.
Yuhua: Samba, I'm scared for you girl, 'cause you can't speak in Spanish.
Samba: Eu não dou a mínima de.
Meanwhile, Carly and Dora talk to each other.
Dora: So, who you're gonna impersonate?
Carly: Carly Rae Jepsen of course, how about you?
Dora: Well I thought of doing Harry Styles.
Carly: Oh... Do you want me to write answers for you, just in case?
Dora: Really? That would be so nice!
(confessional) Carly: Smiles. Stupid bitch. (confessional)
The Snatch Vagina Game begins.
Harry: Ladies, gentlemen and non-binaries, welcome to the Vagina Game! The rules are simple, I'll ask you questions you ladies fill the blank. So, our celebrity panel today we have Serena Cha Cha!
(confessional) Serena: I choose to make a bold choice and impersonate myself. (confessional)
Serena: Hey illiterates! I'm the Drag Scholar, Serena Cha Cha, fuck ghetto language.
Harry: Next up, Harry Styles. So Harry, what's the name of your next album?
Dora: Reads one of Carly's notes. Penis.
Harry: Oookay... Right out of the Louvres, Leonardo's favorite mistress, Mona Lisa!
Beatrix: Stares blankly into the camera.
Harry: Huh. Hm. Well... Let's move on to our next celebrity Cleopatra.
Granny: Greetings, peasant.
Harry: So Cleopatra, I heard you got bit by a snake, which kind?
Granny: Three inches.
Harry: A few decades later, here's another icon of history. Marie Curie.
California: That's hot.
(confessional) Serena: California spent the day telling us how much her Marie Curie's impression was fire, but honestly... (confessional)
Harry: From the hit-show Desperate Housewives, Eva Longoria.
Samba: Hello Harry, it's a pleasure to meet you.
Harry: Wait, you speak English?
Samba: Well, my lips can speak French too. She winks.
Harry: Last but not least, Ciara!
Nyxtamore: I'm Ciara, bitches.
Harry: Let the Vagina Game begins! First question. Drag Race fans are so racist, they refuse to drink their milk with...
Dora: Reads one of Carly's notes. Semen!
California: That's hot.
Samba: Chocolate.
Nyxtamore: CIARA!
Harry:... Next question. Rupaul has lost it, he tried to frack...
Serena: Detox!
Granny: Egypt.
Beatrix: Stares blankly into the camera.
Carly: E-Mo-Tion.
The runway starts.
Harry: Today the category is How Fem Harr Ya? The Queens had to create a look based on a famous Harry. Tammie, do you know a Harry?
Tammie: Well lemme tell you something, Harry Houdini popped some rabbits out the twat of my mother's friend.
Harry: Yuhua, who's your favorite Harry?
Yuhua: Well Yuhua Harrysaki of course.
Harry: Let the main event starts!
Dora: I'm dressed as Harry Styles.
Beatrix: I decided to go out of the box again. So here I am as Harryana Grande.
Carly: Extravangzaliamus, Harry Potter is my inspiration.
Granny: I'm dressed as one of my boyfriends, Harry Truman.
Serena: It's Prince Harry for my runway, I am serving Brexit realness.
California: That's hot.
Nyxtamore: Harry Houdini fashion, abracadabra motherfuckers.
Samba: Harry Shum Jr também é latino, então não venha atrás da minha bunda linda, guerreiros da justiça social do caralho.
Harry: Serena Cha Cha, Nyxtamore, Granny Fierceness, California Thunderfuck, Beatrix Weirdo. You all represent the tops and bottoms this week.
Yuhua: So Serena, you choose to impersonate yourself during the Vagina Game, why?
Tammie: In terms of comedy, it's sucking your own flaccid dick.
Harry: Next up, Granny. First up, I wanted to say that I love your Harry Styles look.
Granny: I'm Harry Truman actually.
Yuhua: Just run with it girl.
Tammie: Fiercy, Cleopatra you know, she's a woman who had a nose. And during the maxi-challenge, I really felt like you had a nose.
Harry: Next up, California Thunderfuck.
Yuhua: Can you tell me who was your celebrity again?
California: That's hot.
Harry: Beatrix Weirdo, it's only you left.
Tammie: Who the fuck is that Harry?
Beatrix: I'm HARRYana Grande.
Yuhua: Girl, there's a d in Donald Trump and that cheap Cheeto has no balls.
Harry: Granny Fierceness, condragulations, you're winner of this week.
Yuhua: You've won an entire house made of tampons. It's great against floods.
Tammie: Nyxtamore, you're safe.
Nyxtamore: What about my critiques.
Yuhua: You look gorgeous, happy? Now fuck off!
Harry: Serena Cha Cha, you choose to do yourself, are you gonna screw yourself too?
Yuhua: Beatrix Weirdo, by trying too hard to be out of the box, you're gonna get your ass out of the competition.
Tammie: California, you're up for elimination.
Harry: You too Beatrix.
(confessional) California: That's not. (confessional)
Harry: Girls, tonight is your last chance to impress us.
Yuhua: You were tasked to lipsync to the Flight of the Bumblebee by Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov.
Tammie: Good luck and remember, don't make turtles choke on plastic or you'll choke on this dick.
The song begins and Beatrix dances around while California stands still.
Serena: C'mon Cali, let's go!
Nyxtamore: Do something, Cali!
California's eyes turn and shine as bright as diamonds as she starts to levitate. Then the wigs of all the contestants are snatched and orbit around her.
Tammie: My God, I know this. She's a Teletubby from space!
Harry: California Thunderfuck, shantay you stay!
California: That's hot.
Harry: Beatrix Weirdo, sashay away.
Beatrix: walks away. Remember guys, staying true to yourself will get you on far in the competition.
Yuhua: No.
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2020.08.24 20:25 fractalfay Vagina camera going inside

In the spirit of this episode, let’s kick off with not caring about each other’s children, and an empty promise that I just need to say one thing. Are we ready for 90DF reality? Let’s descend.
Abusive Angela is yelling incoherently and threatening to terminate her relationship with Michael, because his Aunt Lydia dared to suggest that Michael has free will. Nothing says “true love” like the inability to escape a day without a domestic violence call. This time, it’s not enough that Michael is giving up his family, friends, community, and unborn children, he also needs to assert better that their relationship will be 50/50, and she won’t be submissive.
“I believe she wants to take this man as a slave,” Mother Usman interjects, to be right a second time in a different season.
“If Michael wants the butter, he might ask me to pass it, but I won’t pass it submissively,” Angela explains. “In fact, I won’t pass it at all, who does he fuckin’ think he’s talking to? Some butter-passing-ass-bitch? He’d better stay in Nigeria and get a Nigerian woman if he wants a bitch who passes butter. He can get butter his damn self.”
But…it’s butter.
Angela also elects to remind us of her and Michael’s P in V agreement, her lack of desire to acknowledge this “culture shit,” and of course, that the wedding is off. Michael does his part and apologizes for reasons no marriage counselor in the world could map. Seriously: can they stop putting abusive people on this show already? One thing is certain: if these two were actually married and Michael lived in the states, her threat would switch from “the wedding is off” to “I’ll call the police” and she would make that threat every damn day, with no regard to his safety.
“I don’t see anything wrong with that,” Ashley interrupts. “Have you seen my latest GoFundMe?”
The next day Angela comes out of her cave, and wants Michael to clearly enunciate to his family how submissive she isn’t. Michael’s mother arrives decked out like the queen she is, and if anyone is listening above or below, please let me have one tenth of this woman’s style when I ascend to crone status. A translator is there for bullshit-to-Yoruba translation, and because Angela doesn’t trust Michael to communicate what she’s already communicated 11,000 times. Angela demands that the translator look at her and not Michael, because if you’re going to explain bullshit in the ocean, you have to start at the river.
Sure enough, Angela has once again crafted mountains around a molehill, and Aduke gives no fucks about the particulars of their marriage or the status of Angela’s womb. She also does not make any demands that Angela cease selecting jewelry that looks like a pawn shop battled a gum ball machine to the death, but I’m willing to do that for everyone.
Libby’s family flies in from Karen, Florida, and before they escape the gates Jen declares her preference for France, where people openly mock her croissant hat, and blow smoke in her face while giving bad directions to McDonald’s. Jen talks shit all the way from the airport, while Andrei makes jokes about how normally people like her are arrested for trying to get on the plane without a face mask, but for now, he will tolerate her in his car. Especially since Charlie isn’t around to punch in the face.
They arrive at Andrei’s family house and everyone greets everyone warmly, and Mother Libby says that the whole family seems sweet, and she isn’t sure where Andrei got his gruffness from, or if it’s just that they piss him off constantly. Charlie and Chuck are there, sort of pretending to let Andrei’s near fight with Charlie go, but you can see by their faces that they’re just waiting for the right moment to rally the family around their pointless cause. This team really wants to be the next Family Chantal.
The next morning Jen and her mom rev their complaint engines. “This coffee is strong,” reports the woman who probably subsists on the burnt offerings of Starbucks, drowned in 90 grams of sugar. “This is Peasant food,” proclaims the family that eats KFC as a wedding feast, ladled onto their finest paper plates and poured into red Solo cups. We’re gonna need some extra seats for this team to take.
Charlie and Chuck arrive, and can’t wait to share selective information about the almost fight they had with Andrei. They press the story where Andrei is a mystery they absolutely have to solve, and again, we are denied seeing Rebecca, PI, in action. Instead they decide to get Andrei’s friend Marcel drunk and press him for information, because surely he didn’t detect their overt prodding last time.
Later on they go to pick up Libby’s traditional Moldovan attire, which Jen calls “Little House on the Prairie,” because she has all the cultural appreciation of someone who was born inside of Target. DUI Jen, can you churn out immaculate embroidery with carefully crafted storytelling patterns with almost undetectable stitches? Do not fuck with the Eastern European ladies that pull off this craft, because they will stitch your eyes open and force you to watch grandma make a poppy in silence.
Mom and Jen decide to press Ina about Andrei, and Jen tries to get Google translate to work, to “help her (meaning Ina) communicate with me.” Does Jen know that she’s the one in a foreign country, and the world has officially stopped revolving around her? They find someone willing to serve as translator, and Ina says that she witnessed the fight, and Andrei has always been heated, but this is more than usual. She says that before he left for America she got into it with him a few times, and doesn’t know what anyone sees in Andrei. Also, has she mentioned that she got the better brother? She kinda wants to mention that here. Jen and Mom instantly agree that they don’t know what she sees in Andrei, and at this exact moment Libby pulls back the curtain on a dressing room to state that maybe when she’s trying on a wedding dress isn’t the best time to trash her husband.
“We’re concerned about how you’re being treated,” Jen says, while treating Libby poorly.
“Can we table this, since I’m trying on wedding dresses?”
“Are you sure you want to do this?” Mom asks, once again forgetting that Libby’s already married.
“My husband would like to get married in front of his family, and I’m not going to take that away from him.”
“You can turn back any time, it’s not too late…” Just so long as they’re not listening to her request, and all.
“It is literally too late.”
“Are you really sure you want to do this?”
This team has achieved Yoda levels of no self-awareness, for calling out Andrei’s bullying behavior while bullying her into listening to a conversation she doesn’t want to have.
Colt is forever in short pants to remind us of his man-boy status, and is calling his latest sex tourism victim, Jess, but not before he raises his eyebrows at the camera and pretends to be sorry about his latest banquet of lies. Colt is hoping Jess will visit him in Vegas, so they can have sex a few more times before she notices Vanessa is sleeping between him and Debbie, and all those messages exchanged between himself and nameless women online. They’ve been fighting a lot about Colt being a pathological liar, which hasn’t changed the speed or frequency of his tales, but has changed the timing for when the truth is revealed. Jess really wants to meet Colt’s cats, and so she agrees to visit him, and is uneasy about staying with Debbie, who doesn’t like her, because vagina.
To prepare his mother for the reality of other people, and to make more creepy comments about other people’s “behavior” like the judges from on high, Colt takes her out for some custard imprisoned in what looks like petrified Fruit Loops. Debbie orders “Earl Grey with lavender,” so we know who is responsible for such flavor combinations, while Colt wields something that he describes as like “unwrapping a condom,” meaning that it’s too big for him and everyone is disappointed.
Debbie jabs at her custard while Colt reminds her that their romantic entanglement is illegal in most of the 50 states. She wants to know if Colt is okay with Jess’ jealousy, and I want to know if we can stop calling it jealousy, and start calling it accurate premonition of cheating, because duh. Colt says something predictable about spicy Latinas, and skips the whole part where he’s actually cheating. Debbie finally says fine, but wonders if he’s going to resolve his “talking to other women” lie AND his “Vanessa lives with us now” lie at the same time, or space it out. She says he should confess all this before a plane ticket is purchased, and I’m just going to allow Debbie to be right about this one.
That distant star threatening to red dwarf is Tania, advocate of “direction,” who couch surfed for two months while roommates raged. She doesn’t understand why Syngin keeps complaining about the states, since she gave him the opportunity to build a shed without even applying at Home Depot, and then the chance to live in it alone, before launching a lifetime of driving her foot around. She thinks he needs something steady, like part-time bartending work while slumming it around her mother’s house.
Syngin’s family gathers for a cookout, which involves turning meat, drinking, and attempting pleasant conversation. Syngin reports that he’s even more homesick now that he’s revisited his old stomping grounds, and feels like he’s missing out on life, being in America. Tania sees this as her queue to launch into her personalized version fo Veruca Salt’s “I Want It Now” song, which requires that Syngin have a lucrative career that supports them both, as well as their hypothetical children, despite being unable to pour a Guinness.
Her case for living in America is that she herself was “raised up right,” and that she got to meet so many people from so many different cultures, before she elected to hang out with the same two friends from high school exclusively. Syngin slides in a note that she’s making this whole case around children he didn’t agree to have. Tania continues to totally ignore his clearly articulated statements, in favor of a long-winded rant about his lack of goals, and how he’s not focused like someone whose herbalist ambitions expired the minute she left Costa Rica. Father Syngin tries to remind her that this is Syngin’s choice, but Tania insists that she’s already made it for him.
“I need action,” Tania declares, ignoring that he’s not exactly concerned with her threats right now.
“I think you’ve said your say,” Father Syngin attempts, thinking this might remind Tania that there’s usually more than one person in a conversation.
Syngin’s family thinks she’s being too hard on him, mostly because she’s being going on for roughly 45 minutes about all his inadequacies as a person.
“I’m hard now because I’ve been easy for the past two years!” Tania lies, unless her idea of “easy” is littering in an airport before demanding to talk about children 30 minutes later.
“Your wife said a lot now,” Grandpa says.
“As usual,” Syngin responds, fully over this shit. This statement leads Tania to walk away, and inspires Syngin to not give a fuck that Tania has walked away. Syngin says he doesn’t want to be married if marriage is like this.
“I just want to say one thing,” Tania lies, as she emerges from the bedroom to say the same thing she’s said 100 times that totally ignores what Syngin says. In their interviews, Mother Syngin states that she actually agrees with Tania, but she presses too hard.
Father Syngin agrees. “You need to grow in the same direction, but that takes time.”
Meanwhile, Tania has inspired Syngin’s sister to swear off marriage, and Syngin decides to check on Tania, who is still eating. I don’t know if she’s taking micro bites or if there was the equivalent of 8 meals on that plate, but this seems like a full on relationship. Syngin strolls in like they didn’t just talk shit, and Tania makes vague statements about all the promises he’s reportedly broken, and tosses out that she doesn’t like him when he’s drinking. I’ve been around more than my fair share of alcoholics, and there’s a difference between being unable to stop drinking, and drinking because you’re miserable and want to say what you actually think. Tania continues to assert that she doesn’t want Syngin to change when she asks him too, and she’s a free spirit too, she just wants him to stop having one. She says it’s time to “level up” at which point Syngin attempts to remind her that life is not a Super Mario Brothers game.
“You should be amazed that I’m still here,” retorts Tania, apparently certain that there’s another man willing to carry her from room to room on his back, and reports that she pulled him back from the brink of total life destruction. That’s exactly as much shit Syngin’s willing to take (today) so he leaves for another misery beer while wondering if it will impossible to end this.
The one point I’ll give Tania is that you really shouldn’t play with people about children, and men on this show seem unfamiliar with the restrictions of a biological clock. He needs to own that he doesn’t want this, instead of landing in this wishy-washy space she can talk around.
Larissa has decided the next step in her relationship with Eric is him paying too much money for a basic ass couch. After being introduced to a gallery of expensive items by a woman in an excellent art teacher sweater, Eric proceeds to do laps around the store while not buying a damn thing. It has never occurred to Larissa that Eric might have a roommate for a reason. When he’s still in the throws of sticker shock, Larissa lobs that she’s not actually angling for a living room upgrade, she wants new boobs to repair her post-baby body, and a new nose to look like a pig, and she wants Eric to pay for it. While Eric was outraged at the idea of surrendering dollars for new furniture, he suddenly has the funds to “loan” Larissa when plastic surgery is on the line. If dude has $24K in the bank, why is Larissa buying his phone? Or is that why he has so much money saved?
Eric wants to be certain Larissa is doing this for the right reasons, while Larissa announces that she’s doing this to save her relationship, and knows he’ll like her giant titties. That warmth you feel is their love flame roaring.
Kalani meets with Asuelu’s family of pirates before they can make off with his booty. She has an inkling that this won’t go well, but she’s hoping to shut down this endless money hustle once and for all. Kalani tells Tammy and Mother Asuelu that she understands Samoan culture, but thinks these money demands are being taken to an extreme, and wants to know why they feel entitled to their money.
“We’re poor, you have to help your family back home,” Tammy says. This will be the first, but not the last time this duo hops from “take care of your parents” to “take care of the family back home.”
When Kalani is unfazed, Tammy switches tactics and says that Kalani is lazy because she doesn’t want to abandon her small children to work, just to send them money. Tammy might know that her brother is a part-time free sample peddler, if they demonstrated even passing interest in what he does for a living, but they know that the family isn’t homeless, which means dollars to spare for them. Since Kalani isn’t rattled by any of this, Tammy starts accusing her of trying to feast on Asuelu’s wealth and power, while defying science and getting pregnant as a solo project, because Asuelu’s belief that condoms are for slut people had nothing to do with it. Kalani is at a loss as to what they think she’s after, considering that Asuelu had nothing, but now he has two kids. They bring up her Samoan bloodlines again, but now Kalani is done, so she says that this very bloodline means she’s comfortable telling them to kick bricks.
“I don’t care about the kids. I want to take my son back to Samoa,” mommy dearest declares. Demanding that he abandon his family for their financial gain is too much for Kalani, who apologizes for loving him without endless monetary demands. Then she starts crying, and Tammy accuses Kalani of crying over the way she brainwashes Asuelu, when that’s their job.
It’s clear that Tammy’s mouth is going to keep churning bullshit, and it’ll get worse now that mom is dropping pearls too, so Kalani excuses herself, and Tammy has to be restrained from lunging at Kalani. “Wait till I see you, I’m gonna beat you up!” Tammy shouts. Kalani gives no fucks, because she’s got several inches and pounds on Tammy, and remembered to put her hair in a bun before leaving the house. Normally I’d take this moment to remind everyone that short chicks can pack a lot of punch, especially if you follow the wisdom of James Brown: I don’t know karate, but I know ka-razy. However, if an elderly woman can hold you back, you should probably not consider yourself battle ready, unless we’re talking about a dance fight.
Kalani returns home, and since Asuelu is busy looking at his phone, childcare has fallen to Koloni. She asks sis if she can keep watching the kids so she can pack, and then she heads upstairs to report what went down, with the kid Asuelu calls “farty boy” on her heels. At first Asuelu agrees that everything his family said is really bad, but when she reaches the part where his mother declares she doesn’t care about his children, he’s hoping things between his mother and Kalani translated poorly.
“That is level 1 to level 70,” he says. “That’s not the level they should reach.”
Then Kalani reports that his sister threatened to attack her, and Asuelu promptly loses the plot, sculpting the conversation around whether or not Kalani would win the ass-kicking contest. Kalani says that she would “drop her, period,” and then joins him off the rails to start talking about how she could kick his ass too. Koloni is not shocked at all when Kalani descends the stairs, beaten and exhausted by excessive exposure to his toxic, money-grubbing family, and hopes that Kalani starts making decisions that benefit herself and her family, instead of just endlessly coaching Asuelu through life.
Next week, the show I wish we were watching would include Asuelu coming to Kalani’s defense, Libby’s family getting lost in a forest right out of Grimm’s Fairy Tales, Syngin disappearing under the cover of night, and Angela losing her voice. Instead, Larissa spins the wheel of plastic surgery, Karine plots her escape from Paul, Kalani and Asuelu feel the strain, Jess is still too good for Colt, and Angela takes Michael to a strip club and expects him to not look at women.
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2020.07.22 19:18 Langston1113 Camera going inside vagina

I was sitting on the couch with my feet up on the coffee table, back in my pajamas with no undies. I had turned the AC back and my skin was still drying, my pores open from the profuse sweating not too long ago.
I had just gotten up after a nap. With no phone in my hand to distract me, I was lost in deep thought, staring across the suite. I was in the area with the couch set. Jessica was on the other side in bed sleeping soundly under a pile of pillows, sheets and blankets. It looked like a war zone, and that adequately told the story of us fucking up to that extended break in the action.
As I sat alone, in my head I said, “I wonder if she’s trying to trap me. Shit, she ought to! If I was her, I definitely would trap me.”
This time around I didn’t forget to bring the VCF. The label on the package says it lasts 3 hours. We were just past that already so I told myself I’d pop a new one in her when we got started again. The thought of entrapment-by-pregnancy was based on what happened last time, which was our first meeting in months. That time we didn’t use VCF because I had forgotten to bring it, and I had filled her up quite a bit. I was left to trust her that she had taken the pill the next morning.
This idea came back to me as I sat there silently.
About 30 minutes after I had left the bed, Jessica got up and went straight to the bathroom to pee. I don’t know why but several of my special friends with whom I have long sessions with are constantly peeing. LOL. This time, our rounds weren’t only determined by me creampieing her but also her asking to stop so she can go pee.
Anyway, those would be the only two issues I had to say about this encounter, and they weren’t issues at all. Otherwise, this visit with Jessica was absolutely sublime. I was feeling completely full and saturated. I had "pigged out," then went for seconds, and then thirds; I was a glutton.
When she came out of the bathroom, she came and sat by me on the couch wearing just a towel. We talked for a bit, communicating in our broken “Spanglish.” After a bit, I came to where she was seated, went down between her legs, and the action resumed in the bed.
DO I HAVE A BREEDING FETISH?
Although my “ultra-GFE” designation falls just short of the creampie requirement, the fact is I creampie quite a few of them. That, I absolutely love. It’s the milestone I strive to reach with each of my special regulars. But I don’t actually want to impregnate them. My earlier contemplations of that were later resolved simply as my desire to have a semblance of ownership over her.
However, there’s something in particular that ran across my mind while in deep thought: If she does get pregnant, we’ll manage. It won’t be the end of the world. I know more than one executive with lovechild. I’m quite confident I could work out something with Jessica.
Also, I’ll never forget how with Ava (my temporary live-in), we forgot to use VCF and she wasn’t on birth control. At one point, I had mentally prepared myself to hear the news that she had gotten pregnant. That would have been an accident, but the creampie is calculated, and essential.
OH YEAH, THE “L” WORD
Did I forget this detail from last time? If I did, I wasn’t trying to hide it. As I was spreading her nice thighs wide and about to penetrate her, I told her several times, “I luv you baby, I luv you baby.” That’s “LUV” with a “u”. It would be like talking to a succulent morsel of steak on your fork before you devoured it and your eyes rolled to the back of your head out of sheer ecstasy. Yeah, Jessica is like steak dinner, and ironically her pussy tastes the same to me.
This time around, there was even more of me saying it during the middle of the act. Jessica gives me everything: deep, long French kisses, open-mouthed, sucking on each other’s tongues, she sucking and pulling on my lip; sweaty sex with the AC deliberately turned off; beautiful noises and facial expressions.
Great body. There’s the obvious: huge ass but tiny waist, large breasts and perfect nipples. Then there are little details that I appreciate: Last and greatest of all, a beautiful, perfect vagina. From the outside of her pussy lips, to the texture and color of her insides. It’s just… “pretty.” I spend a lot of time feasting on her.
I LOVE THAT SHE LIKES IT
...and she said it right back to me. I didn’t really need her saying it; it was abundantly evident that she was enjoying the sex as much as I was. She’s a strong girl and was full of energy all throughout. Once again, she took control several times and urged me to fuck her harder in certain positions, or just grabbed my dick and did it herself. LOL.
Thanks, Magnum pills. You were the real MVP. Laugh, if you wish, at my use of sexual enhancement pills even though I’m still young. But this was one of the biggest factors to improving on the last already epic visit.

  • I got there earlier this time, 9pm instead of 12am. But I didn’t check into the hotel for another 45 minutes because I went everywhere looking for Magnum pills. I used BlueChew last time but didn’t want to settle for Zen pills.
  • This time, I wasn’t exhausted upon arrival after the long drive.
  • I didn’t pick her up but called for her Uber.
  • Showered and groomed all before she arrived so no time was wasted.
  • She was in my room by 10pm and left around 4:30am. We had plenty of time to fuck till we tired ourselves out, sleep, wake up and continue.
And the Magnum pills made it possible.
A TREAT JUST FOR ME
We are becoming more and more playful in bed. Last time, she coerced me back into missionary when I wanted doggystyle. She giggled as she did it, so I put up with missing out. But this time I made up for it - that was probably the only plan I came in with. I took her in multiple variations of doggystyle, and not just in one stretch.
She’s a strong girl and she has a “heavy” ass. I had my way with her, spreading and repositioning her legs as I pleased, roughing her up a bit, even pulling her hair at times.
The rest of the positions are all a blur. Like I said, I really pigged out.
NO VIDEOS OR PICS
Speaking of that lovely doggystyle view, Jessica backtracked on us recording video or taking pics at all during the sex. And I completely obliged. My guess is it makes her feel “cheap.” Being that she is showing preference for more slow and intimate sex, I can appreciate it. Besides, the only videos that have come out well for me are the ones with the phone or camera properly positioned on a platform or tripod; I usually give up on the handheld videos pretty quickly because I want to enjoy the moment.
However, there are some regulars that are into video recording, tripod and all. Before making another road trip to New York, I’m planning to go to Columbus next because Sierra agreed to the hybrid-sugar baby arrangement. I also want to stop in on Nevaeh then possibly run up to Detroit to see Roxy for the first time - that’s the busty, gorgeous blonde who dropped her requirement for a verification pic when she realized that I was not a cheapskate. More on that later.
INTRODUCTION TO MEET EL NIÑO?
Although we napped for longer periods this time between some rounds, we still did plenty of talking. I got to know a little more about her family and relatives back in Dominican Republic, which she was leaving for on Sunday morning. I jokingly suggested that next time, the two of us can take a trip there. To that, she squealed with glee and I had to quickly retract the idea.
I said, “No way, it would be too dangerous for me as a tourist. I’d get robbed and killed, especially if I was walking around with YOU.” She laughed.
Then came another idea that I really meant, even if it was only for a while. “I can take you to the airport on Sunday. You and your son.” This time, her response was still in agreement although without the glee. “I don’t mind meeting your son. He’s young so he won’t know what’s going on.” I was just being my normal helpful self. But when she explained that other friends would also be at the airport, I discarded the idea.
GREAT PROGRESS
I slept past 12 noon and woke up sore; my hips were hurting and I imagine it was from the extra time spent in doggystyle. I texted her and said I was sore. She replied 2 hours later and said the same thing, but had to finish packing.
Things seem great with Jessica. Even after 2 years, it seems our “relationship” has advanced just from these last 2 encounters. The trip to Key West is on hold for now. Frankly, we could go anywhere because, in spite of the language difficulties, we are conversing more than ever before, and it's about regular stuff.
I keep reminding myself that I first met Jessica at a cheap motel.
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